"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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trd323

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hi, I had a question about dealing with females that had boyfriends.what do you do if they are still very receptive to your advances, and act as if they are flirting (poking, laughing at "stupid jokes"). Do you treat them like every other girl by trying to get them alone with you? what do you do if she says I dont think my BF will like that or even put that idea in her head that he BF will mind.

Finally, do you even try your luck with girls with BFs? thanks a lot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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aftershock

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Do a search.

This has been discussed at least twice in the last two weeks.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If her bf is someone i know i don't advance,hell sometimes i don't move on girls my mates dig (even though im slowly learning from my mistakes with the latter mindset).
 
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