"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trd323

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hi, I had a question about dealing with females that had boyfriends.what do you do if they are still very receptive to your advances, and act as if they are flirting (poking, laughing at "stupid jokes"). Do you treat them like every other girl by trying to get them alone with you? what do you do if she says I dont think my BF will like that or even put that idea in her head that he BF will mind.

Finally, do you even try your luck with girls with BFs? thanks a lot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aftershock

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Do a search.

This has been discussed at least twice in the last two weeks.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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If her bf is someone i know i don't advance,hell sometimes i don't move on girls my mates dig (even though im slowly learning from my mistakes with the latter mindset).
 
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