"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boyfriend will flirt other women in front of her

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stovepipe

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Who cares.....
 

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
Sounds like he is just being protective of her. Sounds normal to me.
 

ubercat

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Ok strategy except for the getting jealous part. Reasonably played. BTW Love Shack is always open to new members
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thorninmyside

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
He should asked you *cough* I mean her, to be his wing woman as well. :p
 
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