"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Boyfriend will flirt other women in front of her

ThisNThat

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stovepipe

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Who cares.....
 

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
Sounds like he is just being protective of her. Sounds normal to me.
 

ubercat

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Ok strategy except for the getting jealous part. Reasonably played. BTW Love Shack is always open to new members
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thorninmyside

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I have a female friend that was in a long term relationship with this guy, like 5 years. They finally broke it off. We are part of this hiking group...and he'd split off from her side and try to flirt with other women in the group.

But when a man would simply approach her to chat with her (not flirt), he'd see what was happening, get possessive, and put his arm around her to show "sorry dude, she's taken."

Have you ever seen such audacity?
He should asked you *cough* I mean her, to be his wing woman as well. :p
 
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