VashStampede
Don Juan
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I very much doubt they have cheerleaders in Mongolia. Im gonna guess you are from the states
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most of these girls you are encountering only have boyfriends when they meet you, meaning it is you who needs to improve and change the way you vibe with them, etc.mongolboy said:Aight so i met so many fcking hot girls that had boyfriends ofcourse.. but anywais i was wondering if anybody in here has an experience on how to do dis so maybe the can offer me some advice and for everybody else too! I THINK THIS IS A VERY ESSENTIAL POST !EVEN THOUGH IS KINA EVIL
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This makes sense except that the boyfriend might give the girl an ultimatum and that may lead her to stay away from you....LJC said:I suppose everyone has thier own way of doing it. For me, the BF destroying material doesn't just work the girl. It works the BF too. And, it doesn't make a BF just look a certain way, it actually makes him that way.
Jealousy is the kingpin of the process. He has to know I exist. The reason he has to know is because, as a man, he's going to know exactly what I'm trying to do. But of course, he's not going to have the proof. The only proof he has is that he knows I'm being very friendly and sociable to his GF for a particular reason, but in so far as the GF is (and I am) concerned, I'm just friendly and sociable. This is where the wedge starts.
When he tries to step in my way to stop me, he immediately becomes irrational to her, even though he's behaving in a completely rational way to me. She sees it as jealousy and insecurity, even though I know he's reacting justifiably, for good reason. All I have to do is pretend to struggle to understand why two people just being sociable is so threatening to him. The more he tries to stop it, the more he's going to f*ck it up for himself. He can even try to explian to her that I'm trying to steal her and she won't believe it, because I haven't given her a solid reason to believe it yet.
When you get a guy to this point, then whenever she goes out without him, he's going to want to know more about where she's going, what she's doing, who she's going to be with. Eventually, he actually becomes the jealous, insecure, controlling, a-hole jerk of a BF. I become her temporary escape to sanity through the process.
The deeper the wedge goes, the more I start to turn the get togethers into more date-like situations. I grab diner instead of a lunch, because I'm hungry. I invite her over to my place to watch a movie, because I'm bored....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.