"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bowling date?

aim22

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Hey guys.. what's your take on bowling for a second date? The main reason I ask is because where I live bowling is kind of expensive. That could be maybe trying too hard in her eyes? especially since it'd be only for one hour and after that I'd take her to a bar and still pay for drinks, etc...

Option 2 is just hit the bar and play darts/pool and still have that competitive/active/teasing kind of date.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker

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the last time i went on a bowling date for a 2nd date...

the woman became my wife lol. it can get up there but it's fun plus i'm a good bowler and it's fun lol. who cares. if a chick can't get down with a bowling date i assure you that she is not worth the trouble.
 

donking

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i suck at bowling and still took a girl there. rolled a couple 70s or 80s, she still thought it was fun. few weeks later she said if it weren't for bowling, she wouldn't have gone on date 2.
 

NewToTheGame

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Bowling is one of the best date ideas there is, especially early on. Kino and teasing come easily and naturally. I like the pool/darts thing too, but I'd do bowling if I could.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just get really buzzed yourself. ..than go to the date and don't order drinks and see if she does and or wants to pay for hers....you're out there enjoying ur life and eating finger food at a bar...already feeling good lol
 

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backbreaker said:
the last time i went on a bowling date for a 2nd date...

the woman became my wife lol. it can get up there but it's fun plus i'm a good bowler and it's fun lol. who cares. if a chick can't get down with a bowling date i assure you that she is not worth the trouble.

Couldn't say it better myself. It's a fantastic idea.
 
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