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aim22

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Hey guys.. what's your take on bowling for a second date? The main reason I ask is because where I live bowling is kind of expensive. That could be maybe trying too hard in her eyes? especially since it'd be only for one hour and after that I'd take her to a bar and still pay for drinks, etc...

Option 2 is just hit the bar and play darts/pool and still have that competitive/active/teasing kind of date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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the last time i went on a bowling date for a 2nd date...

the woman became my wife lol. it can get up there but it's fun plus i'm a good bowler and it's fun lol. who cares. if a chick can't get down with a bowling date i assure you that she is not worth the trouble.
 

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i suck at bowling and still took a girl there. rolled a couple 70s or 80s, she still thought it was fun. few weeks later she said if it weren't for bowling, she wouldn't have gone on date 2.
 

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Bowling is one of the best date ideas there is, especially early on. Kino and teasing come easily and naturally. I like the pool/darts thing too, but I'd do bowling if I could.
 

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Just get really buzzed yourself. ..than go to the date and don't order drinks and see if she does and or wants to pay for hers....you're out there enjoying ur life and eating finger food at a bar...already feeling good lol
 

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backbreaker said:
the last time i went on a bowling date for a 2nd date...

the woman became my wife lol. it can get up there but it's fun plus i'm a good bowler and it's fun lol. who cares. if a chick can't get down with a bowling date i assure you that she is not worth the trouble.

Couldn't say it better myself. It's a fantastic idea.
 
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