"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bouncing back from arguments

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Nearly every couple have arguments and disagreements. Although DJ's don't argue much everybody can have bad days from time to time.


From my experiance over the past few years I noticed you can turn a negative situation into a positive situation for yourself. After the argument you can show your strength of character by showing that the argument has not effected you.


You're not going to sulk about it or hold a grudge. You're above that. Thats classic AFC behaviour. They show their weakness by letting the negative experiance effect them alot. DJ's will brush it aside and get on with life.


It also shows that you're not easily effected negatively by anything (including women) which will make you more attractive to the opposite sex. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slaog said:
Nearly every couple have arguments and disagreements. Although DJ's don't argue much everybody can have bad days from time to time.

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Very True, as DJ's we can have issues that might make us have a so-called "bad day". The important thing is not to lose your cool no matter how heated the argument might be. It simply is better for the couple or the partners. (some DJ's don't like having a 'couple' status.
 
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Good advice, especially today after getting into a huge fight with my bestfriend/FWB/main plate. Although I'll admit the argument was a little AFCish, I just left it at "I think we both need some space. You take some time to figure your sh!t out and take as long as you need." I'll admit I still am a little heated, but I just need to calm down and not give a fvck. I know she'll be running back soon enough. Not the first time I played the waiting game with this little brat. :)

Edit: ^ I just realized how I am a spitting example of what NOT be from this tip. Man, do I have a lot of improving to do.
 
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