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Boss is making moves on my gf

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My gf's boss is making moves on my gf. He is making a lot of small talk with her. Joking around, pranking her at the office. Than he asked her to come along with the rest of the co-workers for wings and drink after work. She didn't go but said she may next time?

Whats my best reaction. So far I was like okay, that's cool. :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wouldn't worry about it, unless of course, he was buying her a watch and offering to buy her a boob job.
 

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Nothing, just keep your cool. If your confident you wouldn't worry about it, because you know that your the prize.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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MacAvoy said:
Nice stab

agree...I was about to say something along those lines, but really why make fun of someone in that predicament?
 

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j0n024 said:
agree...I was about to say something along those lines, but really why make fun of someone in that predicament?


Not making fun of anything. The starter of this thread has nothing to worry about, unless there is more info we don't know about, as in the guy being creepy and trying to buy her and worse yet, she going a long with it.
 

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inzone50 said:
My gf's boss is making moves on my gf. He is making a lot of small talk with her. Joking around, pranking her at the office. Than he asked her to come along with the rest of the co-workers for wings and drink after work. She didn't go but said she may next time?

Whats my best reaction. So far I was like okay, that's cool. :up:
Buy her a sexy black thong at Victoria's Secret, and have her wear some low riser chick jeans (Tight) with the thong showing. Have her wear a tank top with this, and a tight fitting leather coat. Tell her to have a wonderful night, "Girls night out" and stay home and watch re-runs of "Lost" Text her at 3am that night to ask where she is, and when she replies, "Having Breakfast" answer back "Be careful"....when she gets in the next AM, hung over and slightly bowlegged, dont ask too many questions because sometimes, it's better not to hear the answers you fear the most.
 

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I would only be suspicious when, the boss asks her to hang out when its just them and not with; the co-workers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is why its generally a bad move to date women at work; you see every guy who is around her as a threat, whether its called for or not. If its her boss, he has an obligation to talk to his subordinates. Be happy that she has a boss who is nice to her (in a platonic way) Its better than having a POS boss who is always tearing her down.
 

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If she;s a serious gf and not just some broad you're banging for a little while, then next time he asks her out for drinks you should go with her. He probably won't bother asking her if he knows you're going to show up everytime :)
 

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Is this in the US? It sounds like the beginnings of a sexual harassment case.

I'd say to stay aloof, but try to be out for drinks with people whom she does not know when she is out doing the same.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
I wouldn't worry about it, unless of course, he was buying her a watch and offering to buy her a boob job.
thanks for the reference...:trouble:

i agree with him though.. as far as it sounds, not much to be worried about. depends really on what type of girl you have. some chics love this attention even without actual intent.

the problem with that thinking, is women may not have the intent at first, but after work and effort or even a slip in your relationship may arise a mishap

..but i wouldnt worry so much, she is responsible for her own actions.
 

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Just one question...where do you work?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Acting threatened by this guy will give her the upper hand. Remember that you are the catch, not her. She's lucky to be with you, right? Live it and breath it.
 
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