"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boring summer and the girl at the university gym

Stark

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This summer has been a real rut so far for me. I honestly don't hang out with too many people, i have one summer class, and the only time i see hot girls is when i go to the university gym.

maybe i need more hobbies since my only ones are gym, video games, and more gym

Anyway, There is this girl I had in one of my spring classes I "believe" I have seen at the gym. I say believe because my eye sight has become **** tastic. I can't even really recognize people's faces from a distance since i am near sighted.

I think I walked by her once and perhaps she saw me but I didn't acknowledge because i wasn't sure who i was looking at. She is arabian ethnicity but there are a couple that are always there so It could've been a different one and we haven't seen each other for over a month.

Anything I can do to rekindle this relationship? I only can see her at the gym at this point and its rather difficult to "perfectly time" and encounter without being a creepy stalker person and being there every hour of the day. It is a large gym btw.

In the spring class we talked some. she initiated convo with me a couple times. I think there was interest but at the time I was too reserved and occupied to capitalize on it which i regret. i walked her out of class a couple times that semester and i feel like there was a good vibe when we talked but never got to the point where we would sit next to each other in class everyday.

Also I know alot advise against gym gaming but since i spend 10+ hours there a week and i do get some looks from women in the eliptical section. there is potential I think. Problem is my eye sight again and the fact that I look angry whenever i lift or do cardio on the machine haha which could very likely come off as intimidating. any tips.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ARrocket

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justanothernormalguy said:
get some contact lenses.
Glasses are cooler :cool:

But seriously dude, you're wondering how to "rekindle" when you haven't even spoken to her (since class)?!?

STEP 1) SPEAK TO HER

STEP 2) ????????

STEP 3) PROFIT

As for the gym game in particular, I don't have any experience, but just try to start a conversation based on your surroundings, just as anywhere else.
 
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