"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Boring summer and the girl at the university gym

Stark

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This summer has been a real rut so far for me. I honestly don't hang out with too many people, i have one summer class, and the only time i see hot girls is when i go to the university gym.

maybe i need more hobbies since my only ones are gym, video games, and more gym

Anyway, There is this girl I had in one of my spring classes I "believe" I have seen at the gym. I say believe because my eye sight has become **** tastic. I can't even really recognize people's faces from a distance since i am near sighted.

I think I walked by her once and perhaps she saw me but I didn't acknowledge because i wasn't sure who i was looking at. She is arabian ethnicity but there are a couple that are always there so It could've been a different one and we haven't seen each other for over a month.

Anything I can do to rekindle this relationship? I only can see her at the gym at this point and its rather difficult to "perfectly time" and encounter without being a creepy stalker person and being there every hour of the day. It is a large gym btw.

In the spring class we talked some. she initiated convo with me a couple times. I think there was interest but at the time I was too reserved and occupied to capitalize on it which i regret. i walked her out of class a couple times that semester and i feel like there was a good vibe when we talked but never got to the point where we would sit next to each other in class everyday.

Also I know alot advise against gym gaming but since i spend 10+ hours there a week and i do get some looks from women in the eliptical section. there is potential I think. Problem is my eye sight again and the fact that I look angry whenever i lift or do cardio on the machine haha which could very likely come off as intimidating. any tips.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ARrocket

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justanothernormalguy said:
get some contact lenses.
Glasses are cooler :cool:

But seriously dude, you're wondering how to "rekindle" when you haven't even spoken to her (since class)?!?

STEP 1) SPEAK TO HER

STEP 2) ????????

STEP 3) PROFIT

As for the gym game in particular, I don't have any experience, but just try to start a conversation based on your surroundings, just as anywhere else.
 
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