"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Boring shy girl likes me

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She's the only one interested in me. I find her very attractive, but she's boooring, and extremely shy. I just wanna have some fun,but the thought of talking to her keeps me away from her.

I am 21 years old, a virgin, and extremely desperate. I've been thinking of just going through all the silent moments, and boring convos just to sleep with her.

What do you guys think about that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MooseGod said:
How do you know she's boring? Most shy people just don't display their personalities upfront...she could be a freak (in a good way!)
I've known her for 5 years.
 

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Dude go for it.

You have a single girl in front of you, who you know for dure is interested in you. You don't need to marry her.
 

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Find things to do so make conversation easy or unnecessary (movies, concerts etc.) dinner might be tough, though. And whenever there's an awkward pause, kiss her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anytime a guy says it boring, it means that he is boring. You are the one who has to create to fun and make her become apart of the fun, if you can't do that of course its going to be boring.

I've watch girls have a kickass time with me and instantly be bored out there ass talking to another guy. Heck a good example is on the street or train, chicks are just sitting there bored maybe on there ipod, your going in with the party and she wants to be apart of this party.
 

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well there are things you can do that don't require a lot of talking hahaha...she might be really freaky in bed. Your a virgin, get some experience.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Anytime a guy says it boring, it means that he is boring.
That's not true at all. :down:


I've watch girls have a kickass time with me and instantly be bored out there ass talking to another guy.
He didn't say she was BORED. He said she was borING. I usually don't waste my time with boring girls.
 

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Read between the lines here, dood! You're making her sound like Rachel Leigh Cook in She's All That, the dorky but HOT type. She wants you to make her sexuality blossom. Who cares if she's boring? If I'm attracted to them and they're boring, I get on them anyways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jiff said:
She's the only one interested in me
Jiff said:
I am 21 years old, a virgin
I see a solution to your problem.. even if shes boring the sex might still be fun for both of you. Stop chickening out and making excuses dude.
 

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brett012 said:
There is obviously more to this. A 21 year old virgin who has the chance to lose it to a hot girl and doesn't want to? Why not?
Dude he's a virgin, of course he doesn't know what the **** to do.
 

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Obsidian said:
That's not true at all. :down:




He didn't say she was BORED. He said she was borING. I usually don't waste my time with boring girls.
I know what he said, he said she was boring...

You do realize this guy is a virgin, which ultimately means he has had much fun with women in his life yet or else he'd be getting laid here and there.

The thing about it is that when it comes to girls the man should be bring the party, all the fun, energy and good emotions. So when he said she is boring it might actually be that he is boring because he doesn't even know how to have fun with chicks.

In my life there is one particular girl who would be considered boring before she met me, it was sort of an excitement to her because she never met a guy who acts like I do. Overall she felt like a better person being around me and the day that I stopped talking to her because a friend told me he really likes her was the day she went back to her boring self. I still remember her facial expression when she was isolated with my friend...bored out her ass. We asked him if he had sex with her yet he was saying "Na, she's not that type of girl blah blah" but mind you that same girl I was saying "You got any movies at home" and she replies by saying she has porn, which we then was about to go to her house and fuk but I had something very important to do so I backed out.

Generally what I consider a boring girl is a shy girl who you have to break out of her shell, because as she gets more accustomed to being in your frames and reality she is going to be more fun and an overall better person.
 
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