“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Boring shy girl likes me

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She's the only one interested in me. I find her very attractive, but she's boooring, and extremely shy. I just wanna have some fun,but the thought of talking to her keeps me away from her.

I am 21 years old, a virgin, and extremely desperate. I've been thinking of just going through all the silent moments, and boring convos just to sleep with her.

What do you guys think about that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MooseGod said:
How do you know she's boring? Most shy people just don't display their personalities upfront...she could be a freak (in a good way!)
I've known her for 5 years.
 

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Dude go for it.

You have a single girl in front of you, who you know for dure is interested in you. You don't need to marry her.
 

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Find things to do so make conversation easy or unnecessary (movies, concerts etc.) dinner might be tough, though. And whenever there's an awkward pause, kiss her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anytime a guy says it boring, it means that he is boring. You are the one who has to create to fun and make her become apart of the fun, if you can't do that of course its going to be boring.

I've watch girls have a kickass time with me and instantly be bored out there ass talking to another guy. Heck a good example is on the street or train, chicks are just sitting there bored maybe on there ipod, your going in with the party and she wants to be apart of this party.
 

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well there are things you can do that don't require a lot of talking hahaha...she might be really freaky in bed. Your a virgin, get some experience.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Anytime a guy says it boring, it means that he is boring.
That's not true at all. :down:


I've watch girls have a kickass time with me and instantly be bored out there ass talking to another guy.
He didn't say she was BORED. He said she was borING. I usually don't waste my time with boring girls.
 

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Read between the lines here, dood! You're making her sound like Rachel Leigh Cook in She's All That, the dorky but HOT type. She wants you to make her sexuality blossom. Who cares if she's boring? If I'm attracted to them and they're boring, I get on them anyways.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jiff said:
She's the only one interested in me
Jiff said:
I am 21 years old, a virgin
I see a solution to your problem.. even if shes boring the sex might still be fun for both of you. Stop chickening out and making excuses dude.
 

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brett012 said:
There is obviously more to this. A 21 year old virgin who has the chance to lose it to a hot girl and doesn't want to? Why not?
Dude he's a virgin, of course he doesn't know what the **** to do.
 

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Obsidian said:
That's not true at all. :down:




He didn't say she was BORED. He said she was borING. I usually don't waste my time with boring girls.
I know what he said, he said she was boring...

You do realize this guy is a virgin, which ultimately means he has had much fun with women in his life yet or else he'd be getting laid here and there.

The thing about it is that when it comes to girls the man should be bring the party, all the fun, energy and good emotions. So when he said she is boring it might actually be that he is boring because he doesn't even know how to have fun with chicks.

In my life there is one particular girl who would be considered boring before she met me, it was sort of an excitement to her because she never met a guy who acts like I do. Overall she felt like a better person being around me and the day that I stopped talking to her because a friend told me he really likes her was the day she went back to her boring self. I still remember her facial expression when she was isolated with my friend...bored out her ass. We asked him if he had sex with her yet he was saying "Na, she's not that type of girl blah blah" but mind you that same girl I was saying "You got any movies at home" and she replies by saying she has porn, which we then was about to go to her house and fuk but I had something very important to do so I backed out.

Generally what I consider a boring girl is a shy girl who you have to break out of her shell, because as she gets more accustomed to being in your frames and reality she is going to be more fun and an overall better person.
 
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