Iono just curious what you guys do when your bored and are you guys easily bored? I like to play Tekken, watch tv, play games, surf the net. I know theres something to do thats productive like homework or sumthing but hey days like these happen.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bored...
- Thread starter HateOnMe
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Some suggestions:
- play Sport
- play Pool
- go for a walk (park, downtown, anywhere)
- play Sport
- play Pool
- go for a walk (park, downtown, anywhere)
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Smoke crack, eat babies, pretend im a tree...etc
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SELF-MASTERY
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Boredom = depression for me...
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
exactly i thought i was the only one. i try to make my time here as short as possible at leats no more than 10 minutes.Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Boredom = depression for me...
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......