Iono just curious what you guys do when your bored and are you guys easily bored? I like to play Tekken, watch tv, play games, surf the net. I know theres something to do thats productive like homework or sumthing but hey days like these happen.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bored...
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Some suggestions:
- play Sport
- play Pool
- go for a walk (park, downtown, anywhere)
- play Sport
- play Pool
- go for a walk (park, downtown, anywhere)
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Smoke crack, eat babies, pretend im a tree...etc
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Boredom = depression for me...
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
exactly i thought i was the only one. i try to make my time here as short as possible at leats no more than 10 minutes.Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Boredom = depression for me...
I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......