"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HateOnMe

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Iono just curious what you guys do when your bored and are you guys easily bored? I like to play Tekken, watch tv, play games, surf the net. I know theres something to do thats productive like homework or sumthing but hey days like these happen.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tactic

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fuck
 

oakraiderz2

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Smoke crack, eat babies, pretend im a tree...etc
 

HateOnMe

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...hopefully your not all ways bored Oakz. haha.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Boredom = depression for me...

I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
 

S-lemond

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wow this is still open
 

S-lemond

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self mastery u are taking it alittle to far!
 

skeeloo

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Boredom = depression for me...

I f I spend too much time here I get depressed.......
exactly i thought i was the only one. i try to make my time here as short as possible at leats no more than 10 minutes.
 
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