"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bored single mom sh!t test advice

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I'll never learn... but until I do any advice on how to play this one?

Her: Honestly i don't date very often...but i do have an active social life and if i met someone that struck my fancy I'd be able to find the time...I'm resourceful like that

Her: What about you...how do you find time for all your various interests?


Me: Work hard play hard mostly and being single of course.

Her: Aren't you worried that once you find someone you will have to pull back on the reigns? actually worry a little that i will find someone that I'll end up stuck at home with all the time.

Me: I try not to worry about stuff like that, it's better to just go with flow.

Her: Lol agreed


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another one



Me: Have time to go out for lunch tomorrow?


Her: No sorry. It is just crazy week.


Me: Work in 9 to 5 what a way to make a living :)


Her: Making fun of me again?


Her: Lol

Her: I like my feminist career lol

Me: Cars Rears whats the difference


Women...:crazy:
 

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On the first one, why have or even get close to these types of discussions with women? What does it get you? Lead the conversation in a mood altering way towards the physical. Light funny never heavy. Deflect all philosophizing, cerebral attempts unless you have clear proof that such talk gets that particular woman horny, and I've never met one, not even highly educated. Save any deep BS session talks for your buddies on camping trips or fishing, it is simply too risky in several ways to have these kinds of talks with women you are involved with so why do it?

On the second one, was this a text? If so, consider asking out directly on the phone. It gives you clarity you need. If I ask a woman out and she doesn't say at least "maybe later in the week, maybe Thursday" and preferably offer a specific counter, then it's time to move on to next option and always have one of those cued up.
 
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No doubt, both texts, both dating website emails, but they might as well be texts these days with smartphone apps. 1st is backburner 2nd is a longshot at this point, face somewhat cute, has some self issues, kid... Career girl supposedly which makes her an emasculating man hater in my eyes. Good advice though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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