"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Bored single mom sh!t test advice

Joined
Jan 17, 2014
Messages
62
Reaction score
2
I'll never learn... but until I do any advice on how to play this one?

Her: Honestly i don't date very often...but i do have an active social life and if i met someone that struck my fancy I'd be able to find the time...I'm resourceful like that

Her: What about you...how do you find time for all your various interests?


Me: Work hard play hard mostly and being single of course.

Her: Aren't you worried that once you find someone you will have to pull back on the reigns? actually worry a little that i will find someone that I'll end up stuck at home with all the time.

Me: I try not to worry about stuff like that, it's better to just go with flow.

Her: Lol agreed


..................................:rock:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Joined
Jan 17, 2014
Messages
62
Reaction score
2
Another one



Me: Have time to go out for lunch tomorrow?


Her: No sorry. It is just crazy week.


Me: Work in 9 to 5 what a way to make a living :)


Her: Making fun of me again?


Her: Lol

Her: I like my feminist career lol

Me: Cars Rears whats the difference


Women...:crazy:
 

dasein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
207
On the first one, why have or even get close to these types of discussions with women? What does it get you? Lead the conversation in a mood altering way towards the physical. Light funny never heavy. Deflect all philosophizing, cerebral attempts unless you have clear proof that such talk gets that particular woman horny, and I've never met one, not even highly educated. Save any deep BS session talks for your buddies on camping trips or fishing, it is simply too risky in several ways to have these kinds of talks with women you are involved with so why do it?

On the second one, was this a text? If so, consider asking out directly on the phone. It gives you clarity you need. If I ask a woman out and she doesn't say at least "maybe later in the week, maybe Thursday" and preferably offer a specific counter, then it's time to move on to next option and always have one of those cued up.
 
Joined
Jan 17, 2014
Messages
62
Reaction score
2
No doubt, both texts, both dating website emails, but they might as well be texts these days with smartphone apps. 1st is backburner 2nd is a longshot at this point, face somewhat cute, has some self issues, kid... Career girl supposedly which makes her an emasculating man hater in my eyes. Good advice though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

DragonBlood

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2012
Messages
516
Reaction score
30
Age
38
Top