"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bored real fast

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Willis said:
i get bored of chicks real fast so even if they get tired of me in a few weeks i dont care bcuz i probably already been tired of her and moved on to other chicks....XD
I have the exact same thing, which I call a problem! I have no trouble keeping a girl interested in me but as soon as I take them to bed (which happens pretty easy even with girls who are supposed to be difficult) I get bored of them and want to leave immediately! WTF? I even got to a HB 8 back to her place on the second date and after sex I got a stomachache! I knew it was because I didn't want to spend the night with her, so I left and after half an hour my stomach was fine! I've been with 12 girls so far and I can remember only 3 of them in my earlier age that didn't make me sick being around them!

Is this a problem or I keep finding the wrong women? Anyone else dealing with the same problem?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Certain people are like this...Thankfully I'm not...The way I used to look at this was...

If all it took to get laid was to go up to a chick, say YES, and fuk it would get boring after awhile. So to make it interesting you'd enjoy the process of meeting until the first sexual encounter. Basically you'd be having sex with the whole interaction because your interaction is foreplay.

This clicked into me an I've enjoyed it so much that even chicks I'm not attracted too, I flirt with. This caused a dynamic where when I'm being sexual with a chick I like it essentially means nothing and just a process of the "Mating Dance" that I do.

From there sex becomes explosive because now your playing with all that sexual tension. The most distinct experience was this feminine chick who was so girlie when we interacted that I almost came in my pants on some american pie sh!t.

The "Mating Dance" has now become sort of an art form for me as I'm now interested in photography, nude arts, feminine energy, models, male/women dynamics, sexual fantasies, etc.

P.S...How is athens nightlife, how's to food and just living there in general. In the future I want to stay there for a 1wk to a month each year. Also how is mynokos in the summer or any of those islands (ios?)
 

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I have this problem too... but it really depends on the chicks personality.

If the chick is cool, after you hit it, you can joke around with her and it's worth staying.

If you know there isn't any LTR potential, or she's way more into it then you are, you craving your own bed without her taking up space is natural.
 

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Weezy said:
I have this problem too... but it really depends on the chicks personality.

If the chick is cool, after you hit it, you can joke around with her and it's worth staying.

If you know there isn't any LTR potential, or she's way more into it then you are, you craving your own bed without her taking up space is natural.
Nope, I am talking about a problem! It has nothing to do with the girl! Whether she is a great personality or not! I've met girls craving for a LTR and other acting like they didn't care (after a while this changed to) nothing can please me after sex... It's like I'm only satisfaying my biological matter of having sex!
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Certain people are like this...Thankfully I'm not...The way I used to look at this was...

If all it took to get laid was to go up to a chick, say YES, and fuk it would get boring after awhile. So to make it interesting you'd enjoy the process of meeting until the first sexual encounter. Basically you'd be having sex with the whole interaction because your interaction is foreplay.

This clicked into me an I've enjoyed it so much that even chicks I'm not attracted too, I flirt with. This caused a dynamic where when I'm being sexual with a chick I like it essentially means nothing and just a process of the "Mating Dance" that I do.

From there sex becomes explosive because now your playing with all that sexual tension. The most distinct experience was this feminine chick who was so girlie when we interacted that I almost came in my pants on some american pie sh!t.

The "Mating Dance" has now become sort of an art form for me as I'm now interested in photography, nude arts, feminine energy, models, male/women dynamics, sexual fantasies, etc.

P.S...How is athens nightlife, how's to food and just living there in general. In the future I want to stay there for a 1wk to a month each year. Also how is mynokos in the summer or any of those islands (ios?)
I completely agree with you!

How is athens by night... :) Perfect? There are waaaay too many things you can do at night! There are different kind of clubs (music, people, place, atmosphere) you'll think that that's the way in every country of the world, but having been to England and Romania and know some things from my father who has travelled around the world it's completely different! The only thing is that you have to know where to go! There are too many clubs but the best ones are very difficult to get in or even know they exist!

Mikonos and ios are islands where you can go with this plan on your mind:
I'll do W/E I want to do, get drunk bang 10 girls in a night (if you can handle it :p) and dance the hell out of you! Dancing is CRAZY! I would suggest Mikonos, Ios has too many foreigners, Italians and other nationalities rather than Greek chicks and people!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It could be worse, you could be losing interest after the second phrase exchanged when you first meet them...

No good solutions I can give you other than keep at it, I guess :)
 
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