"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bored real fast

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Willis said:
i get bored of chicks real fast so even if they get tired of me in a few weeks i dont care bcuz i probably already been tired of her and moved on to other chicks....XD
I have the exact same thing, which I call a problem! I have no trouble keeping a girl interested in me but as soon as I take them to bed (which happens pretty easy even with girls who are supposed to be difficult) I get bored of them and want to leave immediately! WTF? I even got to a HB 8 back to her place on the second date and after sex I got a stomachache! I knew it was because I didn't want to spend the night with her, so I left and after half an hour my stomach was fine! I've been with 12 girls so far and I can remember only 3 of them in my earlier age that didn't make me sick being around them!

Is this a problem or I keep finding the wrong women? Anyone else dealing with the same problem?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Certain people are like this...Thankfully I'm not...The way I used to look at this was...

If all it took to get laid was to go up to a chick, say YES, and fuk it would get boring after awhile. So to make it interesting you'd enjoy the process of meeting until the first sexual encounter. Basically you'd be having sex with the whole interaction because your interaction is foreplay.

This clicked into me an I've enjoyed it so much that even chicks I'm not attracted too, I flirt with. This caused a dynamic where when I'm being sexual with a chick I like it essentially means nothing and just a process of the "Mating Dance" that I do.

From there sex becomes explosive because now your playing with all that sexual tension. The most distinct experience was this feminine chick who was so girlie when we interacted that I almost came in my pants on some american pie sh!t.

The "Mating Dance" has now become sort of an art form for me as I'm now interested in photography, nude arts, feminine energy, models, male/women dynamics, sexual fantasies, etc.

P.S...How is athens nightlife, how's to food and just living there in general. In the future I want to stay there for a 1wk to a month each year. Also how is mynokos in the summer or any of those islands (ios?)
 

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I have this problem too... but it really depends on the chicks personality.

If the chick is cool, after you hit it, you can joke around with her and it's worth staying.

If you know there isn't any LTR potential, or she's way more into it then you are, you craving your own bed without her taking up space is natural.
 

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Weezy said:
I have this problem too... but it really depends on the chicks personality.

If the chick is cool, after you hit it, you can joke around with her and it's worth staying.

If you know there isn't any LTR potential, or she's way more into it then you are, you craving your own bed without her taking up space is natural.
Nope, I am talking about a problem! It has nothing to do with the girl! Whether she is a great personality or not! I've met girls craving for a LTR and other acting like they didn't care (after a while this changed to) nothing can please me after sex... It's like I'm only satisfaying my biological matter of having sex!
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Certain people are like this...Thankfully I'm not...The way I used to look at this was...

If all it took to get laid was to go up to a chick, say YES, and fuk it would get boring after awhile. So to make it interesting you'd enjoy the process of meeting until the first sexual encounter. Basically you'd be having sex with the whole interaction because your interaction is foreplay.

This clicked into me an I've enjoyed it so much that even chicks I'm not attracted too, I flirt with. This caused a dynamic where when I'm being sexual with a chick I like it essentially means nothing and just a process of the "Mating Dance" that I do.

From there sex becomes explosive because now your playing with all that sexual tension. The most distinct experience was this feminine chick who was so girlie when we interacted that I almost came in my pants on some american pie sh!t.

The "Mating Dance" has now become sort of an art form for me as I'm now interested in photography, nude arts, feminine energy, models, male/women dynamics, sexual fantasies, etc.

P.S...How is athens nightlife, how's to food and just living there in general. In the future I want to stay there for a 1wk to a month each year. Also how is mynokos in the summer or any of those islands (ios?)
I completely agree with you!

How is athens by night... :) Perfect? There are waaaay too many things you can do at night! There are different kind of clubs (music, people, place, atmosphere) you'll think that that's the way in every country of the world, but having been to England and Romania and know some things from my father who has travelled around the world it's completely different! The only thing is that you have to know where to go! There are too many clubs but the best ones are very difficult to get in or even know they exist!

Mikonos and ios are islands where you can go with this plan on your mind:
I'll do W/E I want to do, get drunk bang 10 girls in a night (if you can handle it :p) and dance the hell out of you! Dancing is CRAZY! I would suggest Mikonos, Ios has too many foreigners, Italians and other nationalities rather than Greek chicks and people!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It could be worse, you could be losing interest after the second phrase exchanged when you first meet them...

No good solutions I can give you other than keep at it, I guess :)
 
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