"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need to do this again. I'm really complacent.

Following DJ priciples in the sense that I'm pursuing dreams and interests with vigour but negelecting the sex bit.

Last time I did Bootcamp had three girls and got a nasty surprise from one which sort of put me back into my shell a bit..

My goal is to experience as many girls as possible with a view to an LTR which I never seem to be able to achieve.

Need someone to make me accountable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Make yourself accountable. Grow through it. Frustrations help us grow.
 
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Pretty lame start.

Do salsa dancing. Danced with two girls never danced with before.

One HB blonde 7. Great body, experienced dancer. Made eye contact and she hung around me until I opened with a comment about how difficult it is to squeeze the lemon slice into the top of the Corona bottle (she was having trouble) Chatted for half an hour and I asked her to dance and felt a bit unsure as I'm an ok dancer (about a year and a half dancing) and she's almost professional stage.

Left her to it after we danced and went and chatted to some girls I know. She left 15 minutes after but made a point of saying goodbye. Should have asked for a number but she's a regular at salsa night club so there may be another chance.

Next week to one girl who was outside my work having a smoke about where she works in our building.

Eye contact with only about three girls.

Sat night went out to night club. Approached two girls.

One: How's your night been?

HB7 Good. Blanked me and kept walking.

HB 6 dancing. Motioned for her to dance with me and offered my hand and she slapped it so I slapped hers back and she slapped mine again and I slapped hers back again. Not hard & then I told her not to be a **** so she was all chummy and wanted to be chummy from then. Didn't close. Wasn't interested in chasing up a date even if she accepted & I was too drunk.

Lesson: Still within my shell in the game. Not trying hard enough and don't have killer instinct at the moment. Need to get it back. Any suggestions/comments/appreciated.
 
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