"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need to do this again. I'm really complacent.

Following DJ priciples in the sense that I'm pursuing dreams and interests with vigour but negelecting the sex bit.

Last time I did Bootcamp had three girls and got a nasty surprise from one which sort of put me back into my shell a bit..

My goal is to experience as many girls as possible with a view to an LTR which I never seem to be able to achieve.

Need someone to make me accountable.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Make yourself accountable. Grow through it. Frustrations help us grow.
 
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Pretty lame start.

Do salsa dancing. Danced with two girls never danced with before.

One HB blonde 7. Great body, experienced dancer. Made eye contact and she hung around me until I opened with a comment about how difficult it is to squeeze the lemon slice into the top of the Corona bottle (she was having trouble) Chatted for half an hour and I asked her to dance and felt a bit unsure as I'm an ok dancer (about a year and a half dancing) and she's almost professional stage.

Left her to it after we danced and went and chatted to some girls I know. She left 15 minutes after but made a point of saying goodbye. Should have asked for a number but she's a regular at salsa night club so there may be another chance.

Next week to one girl who was outside my work having a smoke about where she works in our building.

Eye contact with only about three girls.

Sat night went out to night club. Approached two girls.

One: How's your night been?

HB7 Good. Blanked me and kept walking.

HB 6 dancing. Motioned for her to dance with me and offered my hand and she slapped it so I slapped hers back and she slapped mine again and I slapped hers back again. Not hard & then I told her not to be a **** so she was all chummy and wanted to be chummy from then. Didn't close. Wasn't interested in chasing up a date even if she accepted & I was too drunk.

Lesson: Still within my shell in the game. Not trying hard enough and don't have killer instinct at the moment. Need to get it back. Any suggestions/comments/appreciated.
 
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