alright to sum things up real quick, I'm 19 years old and studying abroad at a University in France. I've got an ideal set-up; a solo apartment in a really big city and i'm thinking about what i might should do to take avantage of this year I've got here. I'm thinking about trying go through bootcamp by macking on abuncha french girls. While I can hold a conversation in french, my problem is that I speak at about a child's level and both my vocabulary and grammar are weak. Because of that I lack a certain confidence approaching girls and I keep telling myself that i'll just wait until second semester when my french is a bit better before I start approaching. However, maybe i just need to start taking some risks..... I'll only be the american in france for so long after all. if any has any tips or suggestions i'd appreciate about what kind of approaches I should start off with or what my attitude should be i would really appreciate it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bootcamp Abroad
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's better to start now while you're full of energy and "the new begining" attitude. Also if you wait for next semester chicks are gonna be in thick coats (winter) and you're not even gonna be able to tell a hot chick.
I spent some time abroad, and now I regret I didn't take advantage of being foreign. Chicks go for foreign people.
It's not important what you say it's all about the way you say stuff. Voice tone etc.
Do excercises exactly like it's described in boot camp book, search for some old bottcamp threads and don't forget to look up Walden's BC journal.
Play lost duckling and tell chicks typical stereotype sh*t about your country, they'll love it.
Good luck.
I spent some time abroad, and now I regret I didn't take advantage of being foreign. Chicks go for foreign people.
It's not important what you say it's all about the way you say stuff. Voice tone etc.
Do excercises exactly like it's described in boot camp book, search for some old bottcamp threads and don't forget to look up Walden's BC journal.
Play lost duckling and tell chicks typical stereotype sh*t about your country, they'll love it.
Good luck.
Get straight into sarging.
You have the PERFECT reason: You don't know anyone.
You can basically do as you please: Sorry I offended you, talking to someone new is not strange in America. Forgive me.
And although your french may not be the standard of theirs, they'll appreciate that you know it aswell as you do.
If someone came to Australia and said "put a shrimp on the barbie" I know I'd REALLY appreciate it
Good Luck.
Take this time to live your life without reget. You're doing something now that millions of people wish they could.
You have the PERFECT reason: You don't know anyone.
You can basically do as you please: Sorry I offended you, talking to someone new is not strange in America. Forgive me.
And although your french may not be the standard of theirs, they'll appreciate that you know it aswell as you do.
If someone came to Australia and said "put a shrimp on the barbie" I know I'd REALLY appreciate it
Good Luck.
Take this time to live your life without reget. You're doing something now that millions of people wish they could.