alright to sum things up real quick, I'm 19 years old and studying abroad at a University in France. I've got an ideal set-up; a solo apartment in a really big city and i'm thinking about what i might should do to take avantage of this year I've got here. I'm thinking about trying go through bootcamp by macking on abuncha french girls. While I can hold a conversation in french, my problem is that I speak at about a child's level and both my vocabulary and grammar are weak. Because of that I lack a certain confidence approaching girls and I keep telling myself that i'll just wait until second semester when my french is a bit better before I start approaching. However, maybe i just need to start taking some risks..... I'll only be the american in france for so long after all. if any has any tips or suggestions i'd appreciate about what kind of approaches I should start off with or what my attitude should be i would really appreciate it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's better to start now while you're full of energy and "the new begining" attitude. Also if you wait for next semester chicks are gonna be in thick coats (winter) and you're not even gonna be able to tell a hot chick.
I spent some time abroad, and now I regret I didn't take advantage of being foreign. Chicks go for foreign people.
It's not important what you say it's all about the way you say stuff. Voice tone etc.
Do excercises exactly like it's described in boot camp book, search for some old bottcamp threads and don't forget to look up Walden's BC journal.
Play lost duckling and tell chicks typical stereotype sh*t about your country, they'll love it.
Good luck.
I spent some time abroad, and now I regret I didn't take advantage of being foreign. Chicks go for foreign people.
It's not important what you say it's all about the way you say stuff. Voice tone etc.
Do excercises exactly like it's described in boot camp book, search for some old bottcamp threads and don't forget to look up Walden's BC journal.
Play lost duckling and tell chicks typical stereotype sh*t about your country, they'll love it.
Good luck.
Get straight into sarging.
You have the PERFECT reason: You don't know anyone.
You can basically do as you please: Sorry I offended you, talking to someone new is not strange in America. Forgive me.
And although your french may not be the standard of theirs, they'll appreciate that you know it aswell as you do.
If someone came to Australia and said "put a shrimp on the barbie" I know I'd REALLY appreciate it
Good Luck.
Take this time to live your life without reget. You're doing something now that millions of people wish they could.
You have the PERFECT reason: You don't know anyone.
You can basically do as you please: Sorry I offended you, talking to someone new is not strange in America. Forgive me.
And although your french may not be the standard of theirs, they'll appreciate that you know it aswell as you do.
If someone came to Australia and said "put a shrimp on the barbie" I know I'd REALLY appreciate it
Good Luck.
Take this time to live your life without reget. You're doing something now that millions of people wish they could.