"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BootCamp 7-26-06

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Day 9 of Week 3

I can speak for both GSP and I when I say that we've got our drive and motivation back. I opened up 2 sets and attempted one more. The first two sets were successful and I got a number close on the second set. I introduced GSP and a friend to both sets and GSP managed a number close on another HB in the 2nd set. The best motivating factor of that night was that 2 people asked how I knew one of the HBs when I barely just met her. The rapport build-up was excellent. Tonight was a blast. My BC count is at 3.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Day 9 Week 3

Today was a blast, we were both able to get passed the initial approach anxiety .All the Sets I tried to open pretty much got shot down in flames, but one of the sets Ashigaru opened I was able to get build some good rapport with an HB7, numbered closed with a time restraint. My BC count is at 4 now.
 
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Day 10, 11, 12, 13 of Week 3

Up to 4 for the BC with a number close on Day 10. Me and GSP tried our day game on Day 12, but failed. We might have to repeat Week 3 for the 2nd time.
 
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Day 14 and 15 Week 3

We ended up having to extend week 3 because we mainly can only go out on the weekend. Went out on day 14 and did awful, did not even open one set in 3 hours, I was pretty pissed.

Day 15 I did a little better we went out to a club and I just grabed an HB7 and took her to the dance floor. Saw her throughout the night and I did a lot of Kino and I'm pretty sure I could have kissed closed but I didn't.. Also almost finished up my Week 3 BC, I was able to make conversation with 3 HB's and need just 1 more to finish week 3.
 
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Day 14, 15 of Week 3

Day 14 was non-existent, for I did not go out with GSP that night.

Day 15:

Started off the night by showing social proof while mingling with some familar faces. Then continued on a high note by opening a huge set. I should have conintued with them further onto the dance floor, but I didn't hear what they said to me. That one did not count towards my BC since she was probaby a HB4. Outside, I opened up a mixed set with 3 HBs and 1 dude. Chopped it up with two of the HBs for a few minutes. Tried opening another mixed set, although the dude was being a jerk, I used it to talk to an HB next to him. Now at this point it's at 3 for my BC, 7 total. Near the bar, I managed to talk to a tall HB and she gave me a boatload of kino. In the middle of the convo she said I smelled like cigarettes and stopped talking to me. Then I talked to one of her HB friends, but it did not feel like 2 minutes long. Managed to get 8 out of 10 so far for BC.

Although I got 4 for my BC, I felt like the night was a failure. I got through A1 pretty easily, but kept on getting stuck at A2 and never getting to A3. It was so damn frustrating. Instead of improving, I feel like I am in a stagnant position.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Day 17, 18, 19, 20, 21 of Week 3

Week 3 is finally completed. I've also stopped jerking off for 2 weeks and it has definitely made me more aggressive. It's awesome. During the long week 3, I've been on a couple of dates and am building my rapport skills. I am averaging about a date a week. I'm still working on the fcuk close though.

Time for week 4 and time for rejections.
 
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