“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Boot Camp week 6 (Response thread)

Nicholas Hill

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DJ Boot Camp - Week 6

(Setting Up Subsequent Dates / Increasing Interest Level)

This is the response thread for the sixth week of the Don Juan Boot Camp. The only content that should exist here would ideally be from those who have read the relevant chapter in the DJ eBook and have done the exercises.

When reporting, remember to log:

  • What you did, correctly and incorrectly.
  • What you thought and felt
  • How you think you're doing at this point
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TRA

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week 6

I haven't been going out too much lately because started dating a girl I met a few weeks ago. Nothing too serious, but things are going well.

I went out with some work friends last night, and opened a number of sets. It was the first time I approached a set and got closed out right away. I asked thier opinion on going to a theme party. One girl immeadiately said "what are you trying to get us to go with you" I said no, just wanted your opinion. She made another comment, so I leanded over to her two friends and said "is she always this rude? how do you put up with that?" her friends laughed and I walked away. I wasn't too interested, I was just trying to open for my wing.

Opened a 2 set for my wing. A guy and girl. When my wing came over I introduced and complimented him. I distracted the guy so he could lock in. He ended up number closing.

Opened a 6 set for my other wing. 4 girls, 2 guys. Spent some time chatting with the girl my wing wanted. He came over and I introduced him. He immediately put his arm around the girl and she pushed it off. I left the set.

My wing opened a 2 set, they were both 8's. My wing introduced me and paid me a compliment and they became interested in what I did. We chatted for a bit, but I had trouble locking in and bailed out.

It was a good night though. Got more practice opening and I'm starting to notice my game come together.

Anyone have any suggestions on how to lock in better.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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