"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boot Camp week 6 (Response thread)

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DJ Boot Camp - Week 6

(Setting Up Subsequent Dates / Increasing Interest Level)

This is the response thread for the sixth week of the Don Juan Boot Camp. The only content that should exist here would ideally be from those who have read the relevant chapter in the DJ eBook and have done the exercises.

When reporting, remember to log:

  • What you did, correctly and incorrectly.
  • What you thought and felt
  • How you think you're doing at this point
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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week 6

I haven't been going out too much lately because started dating a girl I met a few weeks ago. Nothing too serious, but things are going well.

I went out with some work friends last night, and opened a number of sets. It was the first time I approached a set and got closed out right away. I asked thier opinion on going to a theme party. One girl immeadiately said "what are you trying to get us to go with you" I said no, just wanted your opinion. She made another comment, so I leanded over to her two friends and said "is she always this rude? how do you put up with that?" her friends laughed and I walked away. I wasn't too interested, I was just trying to open for my wing.

Opened a 2 set for my wing. A guy and girl. When my wing came over I introduced and complimented him. I distracted the guy so he could lock in. He ended up number closing.

Opened a 6 set for my other wing. 4 girls, 2 guys. Spent some time chatting with the girl my wing wanted. He came over and I introduced him. He immediately put his arm around the girl and she pushed it off. I left the set.

My wing opened a 2 set, they were both 8's. My wing introduced me and paid me a compliment and they became interested in what I did. We chatted for a bit, but I had trouble locking in and bailed out.

It was a good night though. Got more practice opening and I'm starting to notice my game come together.

Anyone have any suggestions on how to lock in better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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