Boot Camp Journel: The return

[rushing dude 123]

I failed my 3rd week, so i have decided to retake it, but so far guys i have improved my social and confidence skills massivly to what it was before and i am pretty happy from the i want to die phase a month ago lol . I have also learnt a few things from my mistakes on a 6 day cruise from a week ago and r contributing a lot to my social skills.

My biggest problem is holding a convosation with HB 7+ for quite a while, which is why week 3 was pretty difficult for me, but there is no avoiding the problem i have to face it and become a expert in this area of expertise. I also reaquantied myself with mr right hand , which is going to stop after today . Anyway guys thats all i am going to say because words r cheap. I will get back to u lot when i do some action. Any advice or comments will b well appreciated fellas.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Week 3

Day 1
alright today was kind of dissapointing, but i had other things on my mind. I was able to start quite a lot of 0-2 min convosation with HB 7+'s. I commented on something i saw about them or the situation they were in like missing or bus and i got quite a few good responses. In 3 occasions i was getting definete interest and should of jus continued instead of parting our seperate ways. Like i was on bike and came back behind a chick and i said howdy....she jumped and was like wow u scared me and i asked her for the time then added some c&f comments (she was smiling a lot), but i then left to quickly, when i should of continued to asking her name and got her number.

Also today I have been noticing my social skills have heavily improved compared to the quiet guy in the corner, now while i am waiting in a que i start making convosations with the strangers around me. I of course sometimes f up, but i learn from my mistakes.

I was dissapointed I only did one 2-10 min convo with a girl i thought was attractive and it went pretty badily. I made a joke about the gym class and said they go easy on u at the end so u come back. She was like what do u mean and well guys never explain why ur jokes r so funny lmao.....very akward. I didn't really care what she thought and kept going, which seemed to help, but i can see how i could of handled that situation better. Tommrow i am taking blood test so no training, which means i should hopefully focus more on approaches.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Day 2
Alright dissapointed about today, but i learned a few things. Well firstly i did one approach today, which was a HB 7 i saw sitting at the back of the bus. I sat down infront of her and then i went go for it and got up and said hello, do u mind giving me some advice. I was telling her how my clothes r all nike and everythink and they make me look young, then i asked her what she liked on a guy she gave me a few suggestions and smiled.

The convo was going well, but then i made some mistakes i said i wanted a kool look not the i am going to mug u look (this put negative thoughts in her head, i saw her expression change) and then she asked if i am trying to impress someone i said just want to look good for girls. Here i should of said nah i am just interested in change, for obvious reasons. She smiled, but did not give me much eye contact, so the main two things i should of done was sit in the seat facing her and just went straight for the approach. I could tell this was not succeful because she mentioned she had a bf. If she would of been better on her advice i would of asked for her email, but i didn't think she was that great.

Done some hi's today and some people just stared at me like wtf r u doing man, but idc. Think i need to work in this area more. Other things i did today was look at some clothes in shops which is not nike and all that other crap. I look different, but think i would look more approachable and more mature. Havn't worn jeans since i was 5 lmao .

I had many opportunities today, but i was kind of distracted with other things. So i guess i should make more effort and i should see more opportunitys. Because i am getting a bit to comfortable with women i should have a bit more rush, but its just coming out natural. I think i need to push my boundarys out of my comfort zone and learn new things.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

How Bout U Start Da Bootcamp Again N Put Wat Is Needed To Start Da Bootcamp So I Can Join Also Iight

 

[rushing dude 123]

Day 3
dam dam dam no approaches today, this is mainly due to me not making a effort and not being very active. I think this is the worst thing to do even worster than seeing a opportunity and not going for it, now i am not seeing opportunies. I did talk to some women today, but these people i would of talked to anyway, although i did notice my skills with them were much better and they complained about stuff and i put a positive spin on everythink like she was a liabrian assitant and said to me i wish i had one thing i was really good at, but i don't have any i replyed "u r pretty good at catalouging those books" she laughed and then i started saying u jus need to practice and she said i am one of the most positive people she met. Hm maybe more c & f because this is pretty close to friend zone maybe.

Alright guys i got really push myself i am to comfortable and don't seem to b improving a great deal, if even improving at all. I have not been doing training because well my feet have got serious problems loads of blisters and had a sceptic toe, but should of done weights or something. After todays peformance i am going to have to seriously up my game and get 2 2-10 min convos with attractive women a day.

 

[tripleplay]

I know I've said this to you before, but I just wanted to say congrats for getting back on your horse and getting on with the Boot Camp. I know from experience that that takes great strength.