"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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boosting confidence by talking

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lately i've been working hard so i dont really have time to think about girlfriend or looking for one

while talking i talk to all the female co-workers (i am a busboy so i have interaction with most workers) although some are older or aren't as pretty but talking to them boosting my confidence because i always though i was too ugly for girls to notice me

another thing is we have to wear shirt, black pants and a tie in work, i have noticed a lot of female customers were turning their head to see me when i walk by them

also some of the older co-workers said i'm good looking :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have boost a lot of my confidence lately, i've been making a lot of my female co-workers laugh/chuckle at things i've said which is a good thing because they all started being really friendly to me as i am new to the job :cool:
 

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I found that if you talk with a bold tone, you'll turn heads. It's an awesome feeling.
 

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drawing positive attention to yourself always shows you that your not as bad off as you thought u was;)

start eyeing some of the girls down
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
drawing positive attention to yourself always shows you that your not as bad off as you thought u was;)

start eyeing some of the girls down
haha i don't have to do that, i always caught girls looking at me as i walk by them, but when i look at them they always look away though :(

i think the reason that i'm not scaried at work around female co-workers are that because i am not attracted to them, when i was working with a attractive woman near my age, i was kind of shaky and quiet around her, but once i started talking about random stuff she would open up to me
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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