Gambit2318
Don Juan
Has anyone really met a girl and got a date at a barnes and nobles or borders?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bookstores
- Thread starter Gambit2318
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
If you are a Don Juan, you can get a girl anywhere.
Especially at a bookstore. Make sure you have an interesting book in your hands. Great conversation piece, too.
She'll think you're smart
Especially at a bookstore. Make sure you have an interesting book in your hands. Great conversation piece, too.
She'll think you're smart
Walden
Master Don Juan
Hell yeah , bookstores are GOLD!
Doppler4000
Senior Don Juan
I'll tell you what- I'm very good at cold approaches and starting conversations in public, and I find some of the coldest responses seem to come in bookstores. I'm not really sure why that is- but maybe people are really absorbed in what their thinking about or reading and it's tough for them to shift quickly back into conversation mode. Sure, you can meet people in bookstores- but my experience tells me it's not as easy as it looks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^^i can see what you are saying, so don't approach her cold. Warm her up with some flirting/eyecontact before you really approach her. She'll either accept your signals, or let you know this is not the time. Then proceed however you want.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's all about the approach. You're stalking a different type of prey in a bookstore. This woman has intellectual interests so the eye contact bullsh*t is a waste of time.
You're hunting a intelligent woman, let her show you that. For example, I've noticed most women in the self help section. All I do is walk up and ask if the book she is looking at any better than the typical self help books (Like Mars/Venus). OMG, talk about a woman opening up.
After a couple of minutes of her explanations and my 'uh-huhs' and nods of understanding, I tell her that I have an appointment to get to and ask for her telephone number so we can have coffee. There have been occasions that she beat me to the punch and ask for mine or offers to buy me a cup at the shop in the store.
So all you need to use is the right approach...