Gambit2318
Don Juan
Has anyone really met a girl and got a date at a barnes and nobles or borders?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bookstores
- Thread starter Gambit2318
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
If you are a Don Juan, you can get a girl anywhere.
Especially at a bookstore. Make sure you have an interesting book in your hands. Great conversation piece, too.
She'll think you're smart
Especially at a bookstore. Make sure you have an interesting book in your hands. Great conversation piece, too.
She'll think you're smart
Walden
Master Don Juan
Hell yeah , bookstores are GOLD!
Doppler4000
Senior Don Juan
I'll tell you what- I'm very good at cold approaches and starting conversations in public, and I find some of the coldest responses seem to come in bookstores. I'm not really sure why that is- but maybe people are really absorbed in what their thinking about or reading and it's tough for them to shift quickly back into conversation mode. Sure, you can meet people in bookstores- but my experience tells me it's not as easy as it looks.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^^i can see what you are saying, so don't approach her cold. Warm her up with some flirting/eyecontact before you really approach her. She'll either accept your signals, or let you know this is not the time. Then proceed however you want.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's all about the approach. You're stalking a different type of prey in a bookstore. This woman has intellectual interests so the eye contact bullsh*t is a waste of time.
You're hunting a intelligent woman, let her show you that. For example, I've noticed most women in the self help section. All I do is walk up and ask if the book she is looking at any better than the typical self help books (Like Mars/Venus). OMG, talk about a woman opening up.
After a couple of minutes of her explanations and my 'uh-huhs' and nods of understanding, I tell her that I have an appointment to get to and ask for her telephone number so we can have coffee. There have been occasions that she beat me to the punch and ask for mine or offers to buy me a cup at the shop in the store.
So all you need to use is the right approach...