Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here are some classic works that are often recommended as essential reading for men, in no particular order:
  1. The Odyssey by Homer
  2. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
  3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  4. 1984 by George Orwell
  5. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
  6. The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway
  7. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
  8. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
  9. The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  10. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
  11. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
  12. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  13. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez
  14. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  15. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
  16. Macbeth by William Shakespeare
 

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I wonder how many here have even read one of them and probably for high school English :p
 

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Hi Pierce,
What about War and Peace?....Truly an amazing Yarn...Up the back of my place is a beautiful Waterhole/Pond....Years ago there was a crazy Old Russian Guy used to sit on the bench I made beside the Pool and read...He was a very deep Man,spent 15 Years in Siberia for the crime of having German ancestry,He read to me from the Novel,an amazing experience,it seems written in Prose,to hear it read,in Russian,is an amazing experience, it has a steady lilt that seems to roll like the Surf....It's a tough Read...I got started on the BBC DVD series,even that was hard biscuits,until a friend gave me a Comic synopsis of the Book...But Pierce you are a Wolf howling in the wilderness expecting Guys having had a poor Educational experience to read your Booklist....One may come at learning from two ends,why not share your favourite DVD's?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hi Agamemnon,
Take care,Pierces second name is Achilles LOL.
 

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Really think Mystery Method is very good as are a lot of Robert Greene's books.
 

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Here are some classic works that are often recommended as essential reading for men, in no particular order:
  1. The Odyssey by Homer
  2. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
  3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  4. 1984 by George Orwell
  5. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
  6. The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway
  7. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
  8. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
  9. The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  10. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
  11. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
  12. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  13. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez
  14. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  15. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
  16. Macbeth by William Shakespeare
Just out of interest, is there a list like this that is for eastern countries. This is the western list, and a good one.
 

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If you want to better understand the world and how we got where we are, I recommend these books:

-The Bible
-The Qu'ran
-Sapiens and Homo deus from Yuval Harari
-When women were priests from Karen Jo Torjensen

Other good books I've read these past years:
-Never splits the difference from Chris Voss
-Elon Musk Biography from Walter Isaacson
-Black Swan from Nassim Taleb
-Outlive from Peter Attia
-Evole your brain from Joe Dispenza
 

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Why People Believe Weird Things by Michael Shermer

Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife
by Mary Roach

The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark by Carl Sagan

48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Two made up books hahahahaha gtfo man
I've read them both, and I'm atheist.
If I get into it with a believer, I like to know what it is I'm debating against.
An English translation of The Qu'ran - and I've read the Bible through 4 times because I tend to come into contact with more Christian believers....
 

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I wonder how many here have even read one of them and probably for high school English :p
I've read all of those - apart from 3... (Hundred Years of Solitude, Old Man and the Sea, and Count of Monte Cristo) - Yet!
Admittedly, Macbeth was in School, for English Lit. class - We also read a couple of Steinbecks in school, 'Of Mice and Men', and 'Cannery Row'.
I have read some Shakespeare since school.
Other Dostoevskys: 'The Idiot', and 'Brothers Karamazov' are great.

I tend to read mostly Sci-Fi/Fantasy for recreation, but am slowly catching up with 'classics' that I've missed....
I do enjoy the Terry Pratchett Discworld books - Isaac Asimov, HP Lovecraft, HG Wells, Jules Verne, Robert Heinlein...
Of the more modern SciFi writers: Neil Gaiman, Frank Herbert, Phillip D!ck, Neal Stephenson...

A few Sci-Fi recommendations:
Neal Stephenson - 'Snow Crash', 'Nebula', 'Quicksilver'.
Robert Heinlein - 'Stranger in a Strange Land', 'Moon is a Harsh Mistress', 'Double Star', 'Starship Troopers' (original is NOTHING like the movie)
H.P. Lovecraft - 'The Colour out of Space', 'Pickman's Model', 'Rats in the Walls', 'Whisperer in Darkness' (Though I never really got into his 'Cthulhu' stuff which does get referenced in 'WiD')

Oh, and Clive Barker - Pretty much anything by him if you're into richly detailed and elaborate, fantasy worlds.
(I have a signed copy of 'The Hellbound Heart' - The original novel which spawned the 'Hellraiser' movies)
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here are some classic works that are often recommended as essential reading for men, in no particular order:
  1. The Odyssey by Homer
  2. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
  3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  4. 1984 by George Orwell
  5. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
  6. The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway
  7. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
  8. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
  9. The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  10. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
  11. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
  12. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  13. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez
  14. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  15. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
  16. Macbeth by William Shakespeare
There is a Steinbeck museum in Salinas. Not too far from the SF Bay Area. Fantastic museum. Inspired me to read East of Eden. Which was great. I visited Cannery Row in Monterey & read the book. I didn’t like it. Watched GoW in HS.
 

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Here are some classic works that are often recommended as essential reading for men, in no particular order:
  1. The Odyssey by Homer
  2. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
  3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  4. 1984 by George Orwell
  5. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger
  6. The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway
  7. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
  8. Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut
  9. The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  10. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
  11. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
  12. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  13. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez
  14. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
  15. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
  16. Macbeth by William Shakespeare
There are Mark Twain sites in the Sierra Foothills here in CA that I’ve visited. Also. in Hannibal, MO (which I’ve been to) Lots of MT stuff. I read MT as a teen.
 

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I've read all of those - apart from 3... (Hundred Years of Solitude, Old Man and the Sea, and Count of Monte Cristo) - Yet!
Admittedly, Macbeth was in School, for English Lit. class - We also read a couple of Steinbecks in school, 'Of Mice and Men', and 'Cannery Row'.
I have read some Shakespeare since school.
Other Dostoevskys: 'The Idiot', and 'Brothers Karamazov' are great.

I tend to read mostly Sci-Fi/Fantasy for recreation, but am slowly catching up with 'classics' that I've missed....
I do enjoy the Terry Pratchett Discworld books - Isaac Asimov, HP Lovecraft, HG Wells, Jules Verne, Robert Heinlein...
Of the more modern SciFi writers: Neil Gaiman, Frank Herbert, Phillip D!ck, Neal Stephenson...

A few Sci-Fi recommendations:
Neal Stephenson - 'Snow Crash', 'Nebula', 'Quicksilver'.
Robert Heinlein - 'Stranger in a Strange Land', 'Moon is a Harsh Mistress', 'Double Star', 'Starship Troopers' (original is NOTHING like the movie)
H.P. Lovecraft - 'The Colour out of Space', 'Pickman's Model', 'Rats in the Walls', 'Whisperer in Darkness' (Though I never really got into his 'Cthulhu' stuff which does get referenced in 'WiD')

Oh, and Clive Barker - Pretty much anything by him if you're into richly detailed and elaborate, fantasy worlds.
(I have a signed copy of 'The Hellbound Heart' - The original novel which spawned the 'Hellraiser' movies)
I am a huge HPL fan. I hope to visit some HPL sites in New England someday.
 

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The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Finding and Losing My Virginity - The Richard Branson Story - Richard Branson

I'm sure I will remember more later but those are ones everyone should read.
 

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I wonder how many here have even read one of them and probably for high school English :p
I've read 8 all in English classes :lol:

Have to say that I thought the Old Man in the Sea was the dumbest book I ever read when I read it...when he started talking to his hand I almost shut it and never opened it back up again...if I didn't have to write an essay about it I probably wouldn't have.

I called it The Old Man In the Sewer because that's where I thought it belonged...flushed down the toilet :lol:

Maybe I'd have a different perspective than my teenage self if I read it today. Funny how time and maturity give that to you.

Loved the Great Gatsby...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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