"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I know there are threads on here mentioning books to read but some are out dated. When I did a search for "books" there were a lot of posts that came up that I had to dig through to find value.

Just curious what books people are reading and/or suggest. For pickup, self improvement, etc..

The two that I recommend:

1.) Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
2.) The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

And here is a good one that is free and short; As a man thinketh..
http://www.1personalcare.com/free_to_subs/The%20Annotated%20As%20a%20Man%20Thinketh%20by%20James%20Allen.pdf
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've heard that "Getting things done" by David Allen is a good book, but I haven't yet read it.

Since you mentioned "self improvement", I recommend some good fiction.
It expands your mind, your vocabulary, actually makes you more adventurous, etc.
 
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
I've heard that "Getting things done" by David Allen is a good book, but I haven't yet read it.

Since you mentioned "self improvement", I recommend some good fiction.
It expands your mind, your vocabulary, actually makes you more adventurous, etc.
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I agree. Here is a list from TheArtofManliness website. Its 100 must read books for men. Most of which are fiction and classics:

http://artofmanliness.com/2008/05/14/100-must-read-books-the-essential-mans-library/
 
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You can't read a book to become a black belt. You'll learn a lot more if you go out there and get experience. That's not to say that books are useless. Just that they shouldn't be your primary tool for learning.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rich dad poor dad by Robert kiyosaki
The art of seduction by Robert Greene
Awaken the giant within by Anthony robbins
 
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The prince by Niccolo Machiavelli. Sun tzu's Art of war. Both the art of seduction (which i read before taking the red pill) and the 48 laws of power too.
 
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SharinganUser said:
You can't read a book to become a black belt. You'll learn a lot more if you go out there and get experience. That's not to say that books are useless. Just that they shouldn't be your primary tool for learning.
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I agree and wasn't my intention for this post. I believe reading to be a great way to improve inner game. I read a lot and about a lot of different things. Knowledge is power.
 
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I just finished "A Whole New Mind" by Daniel Pink. Great book and very thought provoking but a tad exaggerated. But in general a very timely read.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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