"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Books you must read in 2011

bmp2cpm

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If you had to read only a couple of books this year to become a better DJ, what would they be?

My picks would be:

Love by Stendhal. This guy is probably the most famous AFC in history. But, he wrote all about in great detail. He really dissects oneitis, how it happens, and is a great example of what not to do. Although, much of his writing can be reversed and applied to women in terms of how to get women to have oneitis for you, ie the whole crystallization thing. Spinning plates is a modern day version of causing crystallization. Much of the book is lame, but there is a lot of wisdom in this book. Here's a good quote from Stendhal: "It should be remembered that a person under the stress of strong emotions seldom has time to notice the emotions of whoever is causing them".

In terms of fictional characters, I would say anything by Nelson Demille. It doesn't get more alpha then than John Corey, a famous fictional character. Also the character in the Charm School is majorly alpha.

What are your book picks?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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The Greatest Salesman in the World

I'm all for career and financial self-improvement at this point. Reading up about women and improving on relationship skills might help to keep my bed warm on the cold nights, but it won't help to put warm food on the cold table.

I've been reading about animals, as well, specifically about lions and wolves, and the ones that have everything in the end are always the ones who were self-sufficient and independent in the beginning.
 

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AmIAFC said:
The Greatest Salesman in the World

I'm all for career and financial self-improvement at this point. Reading up about women and improving on relationship skills might help to keep my bed warm on the cold nights, but it won't help to put warm food on the cold table.

I've been reading about animals, as well, specifically about lions and wolves, and the ones that have everything in the end are always the ones who were self-sufficient and independent in the beginning.
I like that, what are the names of the lions and wolves book?
 
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