"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Books you must read in 2011

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If you had to read only a couple of books this year to become a better DJ, what would they be?

My picks would be:

Love by Stendhal. This guy is probably the most famous AFC in history. But, he wrote all about in great detail. He really dissects oneitis, how it happens, and is a great example of what not to do. Although, much of his writing can be reversed and applied to women in terms of how to get women to have oneitis for you, ie the whole crystallization thing. Spinning plates is a modern day version of causing crystallization. Much of the book is lame, but there is a lot of wisdom in this book. Here's a good quote from Stendhal: "It should be remembered that a person under the stress of strong emotions seldom has time to notice the emotions of whoever is causing them".

In terms of fictional characters, I would say anything by Nelson Demille. It doesn't get more alpha then than John Corey, a famous fictional character. Also the character in the Charm School is majorly alpha.

What are your book picks?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Greatest Salesman in the World

I'm all for career and financial self-improvement at this point. Reading up about women and improving on relationship skills might help to keep my bed warm on the cold nights, but it won't help to put warm food on the cold table.

I've been reading about animals, as well, specifically about lions and wolves, and the ones that have everything in the end are always the ones who were self-sufficient and independent in the beginning.
 

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AmIAFC said:
The Greatest Salesman in the World

I'm all for career and financial self-improvement at this point. Reading up about women and improving on relationship skills might help to keep my bed warm on the cold nights, but it won't help to put warm food on the cold table.

I've been reading about animals, as well, specifically about lions and wolves, and the ones that have everything in the end are always the ones who were self-sufficient and independent in the beginning.
I like that, what are the names of the lions and wolves book?
 
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