"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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im thinking of purchasing some sort of book that will help me with my 'game'.. i know that the mystery method is one!are there any other good ones that i should buy! and what do you people reccomend? NB im not going to buy anything too expensive either!
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hot stuff said:
im thinking of purchasing some sort of book that will help me with my 'game'.. i know that the mystery method is one!are there any other good ones that i should buy! and what do you people reccomend? NB im not going to buy anything too expensive either!
thanks
I'd say Mystery Method or Double Your Dating are your best bets, but both are fairly expensive. Mystery Method is all about outer game and tricks and lines, whilst Double Your Dating is more like reprogramming you to be naturally more sucessful with girls. It depends what sort of person you want to become really. I'm much more for natural game and hate all the canned lines etc I prefer to make mine up on the spot (minus the opener and a couple of negs)
 

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Even David D says... once you have read a bit...you need to get out in the game and do it. Reading books is creative avoidance.
 

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Look man, I fell into the trap of studyitis when I first got into this, but I never had any problems approaching women so I was still in the field. Let me spare you a lot of time and effort. The only thing you need to read are Double Your Dating, Carlos Xuma's Secrets of The Alpha Man, and maybe Mystery's The Venusian Arts Handbook, if so much.

THATS IT.
 
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