"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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books to help with your game

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im thinking of purchasing some sort of book that will help me with my 'game'.. i know that the mystery method is one!are there any other good ones that i should buy! and what do you people reccomend? NB im not going to buy anything too expensive either!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hot stuff said:
im thinking of purchasing some sort of book that will help me with my 'game'.. i know that the mystery method is one!are there any other good ones that i should buy! and what do you people reccomend? NB im not going to buy anything too expensive either!
thanks
I'd say Mystery Method or Double Your Dating are your best bets, but both are fairly expensive. Mystery Method is all about outer game and tricks and lines, whilst Double Your Dating is more like reprogramming you to be naturally more sucessful with girls. It depends what sort of person you want to become really. I'm much more for natural game and hate all the canned lines etc I prefer to make mine up on the spot (minus the opener and a couple of negs)
 

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Even David D says... once you have read a bit...you need to get out in the game and do it. Reading books is creative avoidance.
 

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Look man, I fell into the trap of studyitis when I first got into this, but I never had any problems approaching women so I was still in the field. Let me spare you a lot of time and effort. The only thing you need to read are Double Your Dating, Carlos Xuma's Secrets of The Alpha Man, and maybe Mystery's The Venusian Arts Handbook, if so much.

THATS IT.
 
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