"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Books that could change my life

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I think I have found the books that could change my life. I haven't read them but they are:
1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp

I want to learn "game" or what you may call it and i think a bootcamp of some sort is the right thing? Should I read the DJ bootcamp?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
 
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Miladius said:
The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
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Here's the best advice that anyone can give you:

- Just do it.

Nike had the right idea. You have inner game down right? Just go for it man. The worst thing that can happen is a fail right? You know what that means? That means you just move onto the next one until you get your groove down.

DJ mindset is don't let girls that turn you down or reject you get you down: there is more fish in the sea. That's the truth man.
 
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If you don't like to read, check out my podcast

You get out what you put in

I've read everything I can get my hands on about women, dating, and relationships

I like to read

Not everyone does

That's why I do my podcast: to share the ideas I've learned from books as well as my own ideas that have been proven in the real world to be effective with guys who don't like to read
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you really want to read a book OP then read "48 Laws of Power" or "Art of Seduction." Both are by Robert Greene and they both helped me break out of my AFC shell to become the DJ I was meant to be once I realized the games women spin men in.
 
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Miladius said:
The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
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The Book of Pook is a great starting point! I've read parts of it and there's lots of material.

If you're more interested in outer game, Magic Bullets would actually be a great read for you. It's not a bad book at all, and it gives you a fantastic model for a seduction, which you can even set up to use to get yourself a girlfriend or LTR. I believe you need to spend more time in comfort for this result.

If you really like RSD, you should take a look at their other stuff.
 
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Read "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.. This book has changed many peoples lives and helped people become successful financially.

Also "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" which really deals with poor person mentality versus rich person mentality.

These books aren't necessarily "Game" in the dating world but more like "Game" in the world of life. You can definitely apply that stuff to dating and PUA techniques as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I also think that Book of Pook is REALLY good. Have not read it but just watched it through.
But what about Weapons of Mass seduction? Is it a good book?

I also want to know about the Don Juan bootcamp book. Is it good or should I instead read Magic Bullets? Which one should I choose? I am leaning towards the Don Juan Bootcamp book but I dont know? What do you think?

I like to read and also go out in the field I think it is really good to do BOTH. Read and apply. That's my thought.
 
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Read Redirect by Timothy Wilson. It will literally change your life by changing your beliefs.
It is a scientific book that will make you a better, happier person. Link to the book

As for game, I would read The Mystery Method, Learn to Pimp, and The Book of Pook.
 
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But what about the Don Juan Bootcamp???
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You should read all of these books:

1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp
4. Magic Bullets

And then, feel free to come back for more suggestions!
 
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But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
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You ultimately need to try them both out for yourself. I've read Magic Bullets, but I haven't done the DJ Bootcamp. And there is no "better" they are both separate programs with equally valuable information. You should do both and reap the benefits of having completed them.
 
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Miladius said:
But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
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Again quit thinking and get to reading.

Read them both. Decide for yourself. Your opinion on them is likely to be different then others.
 
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power of now, a new earth (both by e. tolle), wherever you go there you are (j. kabat-zinn)

not pick-up related, but life related
 
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1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp
4. Magic Bullets
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Where do I find these books?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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