"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Books that could change my life

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I think I have found the books that could change my life. I haven't read them but they are:
1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp

I want to learn "game" or what you may call it and i think a bootcamp of some sort is the right thing? Should I read the DJ bootcamp?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
 
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Miladius said:
The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
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Here's the best advice that anyone can give you:

- Just do it.

Nike had the right idea. You have inner game down right? Just go for it man. The worst thing that can happen is a fail right? You know what that means? That means you just move onto the next one until you get your groove down.

DJ mindset is don't let girls that turn you down or reject you get you down: there is more fish in the sea. That's the truth man.
 
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If you don't like to read, check out my podcast

You get out what you put in

I've read everything I can get my hands on about women, dating, and relationships

I like to read

Not everyone does

That's why I do my podcast: to share the ideas I've learned from books as well as my own ideas that have been proven in the real world to be effective with guys who don't like to read
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you really want to read a book OP then read "48 Laws of Power" or "Art of Seduction." Both are by Robert Greene and they both helped me break out of my AFC shell to become the DJ I was meant to be once I realized the games women spin men in.
 
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Miladius said:
The thing is:

A year ago I moved to a new city and started to "game". Back then I listened to Tyler Durden on RSD and thought that the material was awesome. However the problem was that I never learned outer game I never had that skill. Only the motivation. I never had any idea of structure. Do you understand? Therefore I now want to choose a solid source from which I can learn...

What do you think about the books? I have also been told to read Magic Bullets but I am afraid that it will poison my game instead. I want to read the "right" stuff.
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The Book of Pook is a great starting point! I've read parts of it and there's lots of material.

If you're more interested in outer game, Magic Bullets would actually be a great read for you. It's not a bad book at all, and it gives you a fantastic model for a seduction, which you can even set up to use to get yourself a girlfriend or LTR. I believe you need to spend more time in comfort for this result.

If you really like RSD, you should take a look at their other stuff.
 
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Read "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.. This book has changed many peoples lives and helped people become successful financially.

Also "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" which really deals with poor person mentality versus rich person mentality.

These books aren't necessarily "Game" in the dating world but more like "Game" in the world of life. You can definitely apply that stuff to dating and PUA techniques as well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I also think that Book of Pook is REALLY good. Have not read it but just watched it through.
But what about Weapons of Mass seduction? Is it a good book?

I also want to know about the Don Juan bootcamp book. Is it good or should I instead read Magic Bullets? Which one should I choose? I am leaning towards the Don Juan Bootcamp book but I dont know? What do you think?

I like to read and also go out in the field I think it is really good to do BOTH. Read and apply. That's my thought.
 
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Read Redirect by Timothy Wilson. It will literally change your life by changing your beliefs.
It is a scientific book that will make you a better, happier person. Link to the book

As for game, I would read The Mystery Method, Learn to Pimp, and The Book of Pook.
 
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But what about the Don Juan Bootcamp???
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You should read all of these books:

1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp
4. Magic Bullets

And then, feel free to come back for more suggestions!
 
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But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
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You ultimately need to try them both out for yourself. I've read Magic Bullets, but I haven't done the DJ Bootcamp. And there is no "better" they are both separate programs with equally valuable information. You should do both and reap the benefits of having completed them.
 
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Miladius said:
But my question is which is better Don Juan bootcamp ord Magic bullets? Because these two books have DIFFERENT "game". Magic Bullets seems to be INDIRECT and Don Juan seems to be more DIRECT....What do you guys think?
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Again quit thinking and get to reading.

Read them both. Decide for yourself. Your opinion on them is likely to be different then others.
 
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power of now, a new earth (both by e. tolle), wherever you go there you are (j. kabat-zinn)

not pick-up related, but life related
 
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1. Book of Pook
2. Weapons of Mass seduction
3. Don Juan Bootcamp
4. Magic Bullets
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Where do I find these books?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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