"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Books recommended by the "gurus." Do you try to read them all?

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I also like that he goes beyond just picking a girl up, it's about how to handle her over time.
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That's what separates the REAL DJs from the pretenders PUAs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's what separates the REAL DJs from the pretenders PUAs.
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:yes: I guess that's why their name (PUA) tells you specifically their limitation.
 
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Well I'd much rather be a real MAN who is good at handling himself... AND women. At this point I don't see how you could have the second without the first. Im sure at some point I'll review the PUA stuff again but my goals have completely changed in the last few months. I'll re-read Doc Love because it's more about being a man that attracts women then pretending at a role that tricks women into thinking you're that actual man to begin with.

Doc Love is more about learning to identify good women, and keeping bad women away from you than learning to just get laid (qualifying). I think a lot of guys put the cart before the horse on this, I did.
 
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