"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Books recommended by the "gurus." Do you try to read them all?

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I also like that he goes beyond just picking a girl up, it's about how to handle her over time.
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That's what separates the REAL DJs from the pretenders PUAs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's what separates the REAL DJs from the pretenders PUAs.
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:yes: I guess that's why their name (PUA) tells you specifically their limitation.
 
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Well I'd much rather be a real MAN who is good at handling himself... AND women. At this point I don't see how you could have the second without the first. Im sure at some point I'll review the PUA stuff again but my goals have completely changed in the last few months. I'll re-read Doc Love because it's more about being a man that attracts women then pretending at a role that tricks women into thinking you're that actual man to begin with.

Doc Love is more about learning to identify good women, and keeping bad women away from you than learning to just get laid (qualifying). I think a lot of guys put the cart before the horse on this, I did.
 
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