"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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phil2015

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Hi guys,

Got a bit of a curious situation regarding a girl ive been seeing. Basically she Appears to have Very high interest level, but due to a couple of things, ie ignoring my messages when I know she's online, making me wait long periods, one broken date I'm very confused.

Alsoshe mentions she misses me quite a bit, and she sent me the following text yesterday which I am struggling to understand. She sent the following, when I asked why she misses me;

"God knows why I miss you. I normally only miss people after I've spent a certain amount of time with them, by this point I've normally only been on two dates and have been nowhere near intimate. With you I feel I can be myself and be open"

The second point......after developing oneitis with the above chick, I sought help with the book of pook. Now the book recommends I have a backup girl to avoid developing one it is, and re!eave the pressure.

I am in a position, where I can reconnect with an old flame and effectively bang two chicks st the same time. Has anyone done this? I'm new to the advice of Pook/sosuave but I'm realising I need to change something in my life and the advice seems legit......

Will this reduce/cure my one it is with the firsts chick? Will she notice that I sm not as attentive etc?

Regards

P
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yorkex

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If she is that "interested" as she says or appears.

Go full action mode and tell her what YOU want , if you want to be couples make it clear if you want sex make it clear.
If she is really interested then she will make a choice ...if not stop feeding her attention. If she doesn't want to progress from texting to dates and eventually relationship or sex...she is just using you for ATTENTION.

Cut it off !
 

SmooveMooves

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Gauge women by their actions not their words.

That should be like rule #1.

She could've texted you that she's in love with you and you're the best thing that ever happened to her.

But then flakes on the next two dates.

If she doesn't act interested, she ain't interested.. Forget what she may tell you.

Actions speak louder than words my friend.
 

Donaldinho

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phil2015 said:
I am in a position, where I can reconnect with an old flame and effectively bang two chicks st the same time. Has anyone done this?
No, no dude in the history of mankind has banged 2 chicks. If this shall ever happen, especially if it happens at the same exact time with the same d1ck, I propose we call it a threesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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