"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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phil2015

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Hi guys,

Got a bit of a curious situation regarding a girl ive been seeing. Basically she Appears to have Very high interest level, but due to a couple of things, ie ignoring my messages when I know she's online, making me wait long periods, one broken date I'm very confused.

Alsoshe mentions she misses me quite a bit, and she sent me the following text yesterday which I am struggling to understand. She sent the following, when I asked why she misses me;

"God knows why I miss you. I normally only miss people after I've spent a certain amount of time with them, by this point I've normally only been on two dates and have been nowhere near intimate. With you I feel I can be myself and be open"

The second point......after developing oneitis with the above chick, I sought help with the book of pook. Now the book recommends I have a backup girl to avoid developing one it is, and re!eave the pressure.

I am in a position, where I can reconnect with an old flame and effectively bang two chicks st the same time. Has anyone done this? I'm new to the advice of Pook/sosuave but I'm realising I need to change something in my life and the advice seems legit......

Will this reduce/cure my one it is with the firsts chick? Will she notice that I sm not as attentive etc?

Regards

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yorkex

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If she is that "interested" as she says or appears.

Go full action mode and tell her what YOU want , if you want to be couples make it clear if you want sex make it clear.
If she is really interested then she will make a choice ...if not stop feeding her attention. If she doesn't want to progress from texting to dates and eventually relationship or sex...she is just using you for ATTENTION.

Cut it off !
 
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SmooveMooves

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Gauge women by their actions not their words.

That should be like rule #1.

She could've texted you that she's in love with you and you're the best thing that ever happened to her.

But then flakes on the next two dates.

If she doesn't act interested, she ain't interested.. Forget what she may tell you.

Actions speak louder than words my friend.
 
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phil2015 said:
I am in a position, where I can reconnect with an old flame and effectively bang two chicks st the same time. Has anyone done this?
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No, no dude in the history of mankind has banged 2 chicks. If this shall ever happen, especially if it happens at the same exact time with the same d1ck, I propose we call it a threesome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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