Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Agreed. He even did a better job singing Where the Streets Have No Name than Bono himself (at least present day Bono)cordoncordon said:Huge U2 fan, but I would say Matthew Bellamy from Muse has a better singing voice.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Wow. Great job.CRDJit said:Agreed. He even did a better job singing Where the Streets Have No Name than Bono himself (at least present day Bono)
he is soo cooool, met him a couple of time, i had a AAAA at his 360 tour paris concertmahon83050 said:I certainly think so, although Mike Patton from Faith No More was great (but Faith No More was not really rock, they were grunge).
Anyone agree or disagree?
Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?cordoncordon said:Wow. Great job.
KarmaSutra said:Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?
You do brag incessantly about how rich you are and what a "man" you are?
Where's my $1000 check? You did wager it.
Like every other bang-his-chest douche, you'll disengage and run away to find someone with no sense to hopefully give you more green dots.
stop being jealous, It makes your face look like a beauty pageant candidate that arrived in second position.KarmaSutra said:Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?
You do brag incessantly about how rich you are and what a "man" you are?
Where's my $1000 check? You did wager it.
Like every other bang-his-chest douche, you'll disengage and run away to find someone with no sense to hopefully give you more green dots.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They are definiately comparable. I love U2, I think Bono could be considered "one of the best" singers in Rock history in terms of range and ability.Rubirosa said:These guys blow the doors off Bono IMO
Steven Tyler
Axl Rose
Freddie Mercury
Ian Gillian (Deep Purple)
Klaus Meine (Scorpions)
Look again Brother.Marvin Gaye said:Shame no one has mentioned Robert Plant yet!!