Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Agreed. He even did a better job singing Where the Streets Have No Name than Bono himself (at least present day Bono)cordoncordon said:Huge U2 fan, but I would say Matthew Bellamy from Muse has a better singing voice.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wow. Great job.CRDJit said:Agreed. He even did a better job singing Where the Streets Have No Name than Bono himself (at least present day Bono)
he is soo cooool, met him a couple of time, i had a AAAA at his 360 tour paris concertmahon83050 said:I certainly think so, although Mike Patton from Faith No More was great (but Faith No More was not really rock, they were grunge).
Anyone agree or disagree?
Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?cordoncordon said:Wow. Great job.
KarmaSutra said:Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?
You do brag incessantly about how rich you are and what a "man" you are?
Where's my $1000 check? You did wager it.
Like every other bang-his-chest douche, you'll disengage and run away to find someone with no sense to hopefully give you more green dots.
stop being jealous, It makes your face look like a beauty pageant candidate that arrived in second position.KarmaSutra said:Certainly you can spare a couple of your millions to buy this guy as an addition to your...harem?
You do brag incessantly about how rich you are and what a "man" you are?
Where's my $1000 check? You did wager it.
Like every other bang-his-chest douche, you'll disengage and run away to find someone with no sense to hopefully give you more green dots.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They are definiately comparable. I love U2, I think Bono could be considered "one of the best" singers in Rock history in terms of range and ability.Rubirosa said:These guys blow the doors off Bono IMO
Steven Tyler
Axl Rose
Freddie Mercury
Ian Gillian (Deep Purple)
Klaus Meine (Scorpions)
Look again Brother.Marvin Gaye said:Shame no one has mentioned Robert Plant yet!!