“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Boner etiquette

ElGuapo

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When you're making out with a girl for the first time, should you initially hide your boner?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nexus Polaris

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I wouldn't. If you don't think it's going to go any further than making out, I'd just draw attention to it in the most flagrant way possible and reframe it as a neg.

"Oh great, look what you did. Thanks a lot. I'm going to have a hard time making out with you now. I won't be able to reach you from 18 inches away."


But if she seems like she'd probably be up for doing the deed, just escalate naturally.
 

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Yes. You should hide it in her mouth, vagina or ass. In a pinch, her hand will do.


Seriously, though, dont hide it if the makeout session can go somewhere. If you're in public, or in a bar or school dance or something, dont get one. If its on, dont hide it. You could grab her hand and let her feel how much she's turning you on.
 

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Yeah I'd say don't hide it, let 'em know you've got wood lol.

I think when you do that, they think "Damn this guy really wants me bad." and it gets them even hornier during a makeout session. Most girls will respond positively unless they're prude or sexually repressed & if that's the case, I'd "next" them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ENIGMA16

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Best thread name I've ever seen on a discussion forum by far.

And no, why the hell would you hide your **** from a girl that wants it inside of her?
 

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Anyone remember in middle/high school when they'd come up randomly and at the worst times, like when you have to get up in front of class? And you do that awkward hunched over walk thing as a feeble attempt to hide it?

Good times.
 

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I never hide it. It's a natural thing.

Last time this chick teased me & asked "what is that poking me?" I said: "It's a man's natural appreciation for a beautiful woman."

Heard a line in a recent Californication episode when Hank was getting a boner from being turned on by some chick: "Woman, are you sexually harassing me? Look what you've done!" or something along that line. I'm gonna use it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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