“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bondage fetish

OlympicTim

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Kinda weird posting this on a website with all dudes (or 95 percent dudes) but I have a huge bondage fetish (i can't jerk off to normal porn)

Just wondering how rare it is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I love shibari, I think it's great, okay? . I love japanese people, awesome people I tell you. I have many japs friends that call me and said "CuddleJunkie, I approve of your tremendous fetish".
 

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A lot of women like it but dont forget to make her sign Master slave contract (seriously ) before you do that thing if you dont want the police next day on your door .
 

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A lot of women like it but dont forget to make her sign Master slave contract (seriously ) before you do that thing if you dont want the police next day on your door .
Those contracts do exist, but they are merely for fantasy purposes. The law does not recognize contracts for sexual services. Making a woman sign anything is pointless, anyway, because later she'll just say that you intimidated her into signing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Those contracts do exist, but they are merely for fantasy purposes. The law does not recognize contracts for sexual services. Making a woman sign anything is pointless, anyway, because later she'll just say that you intimidated her into signing.
So what do you recommend? To record it to show her willingness or something?
 

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Well, then you get into wiretapping laws. I think twelve states require consent of both parties before you record a conversation.
 

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Well, then you get into wiretapping laws. I think twelve states require consent of both parties before you record a conversation.
Yeah, I mean if you are going to get into **** with a plate to talk with her about recording. I guess that if she says something like "omg I can't believe we're filming this" it would be pretty much a declaration of consent.
It's crazy that we have to even discuss this things to not have problems in the future. ****.
 

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Yeah, I mean if you are going to get into **** with a plate to talk with her about recording. I guess that if she says something like "omg I can't believe we're filming this" it would be pretty much a declaration of consent.
It's crazy that we have to even discuss this things to not have problems in the future. ****.
Or maybe guys should be a little more careful about who they're having sex with. I realize that is an extremely unpopular stance in the PUA community, however.
 

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Or maybe guys should be a little more careful about who they're having sex with. I realize that is an extremely unpopular stance in the PUA community, however.
Uuuuh, yeah I know what you mean. And I agree with you, but at the same time you usually say that we use to take the responsability out of women. And I agree too, lol. So where do we find the ideal half?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Uuuuh, yeah I know what you mean. And I agree with you, but at the same time you usually say that we use to take the responsability out of women. And I agree too, lol. So where do we find the ideal half?
Actually knowing with who you are having sex is the most important thing these days, if she is kind of women who threat , talk about sexual harassment, use word of No when there is no clear reason then it is better to you to stay away from here , because that mean rape and sexual assault charges are on her mind, and she might use it against you when thing go bad .
 

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Anyone got a real simple Shibari how to link. Lmao at myself. Did the whole bad girl/need to be punished thing and now I have no idea what to do with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The new 50 Shades movie came out in theaters this weekend. I have no plans to see it, but I am hearing about it already from women who are fans of the book.

Prominently featured in the movie is a bondage item called a "spreader bar." Marketing geniuses that they are, they released their name on actual bondage equipment: https://www.amazon.com/Fifty-Shades-Trust-Adjustable-Spreader/dp/B011E41X8S

The bar telescopes outward; good ones do. There are also fixed-length ones that are very easy to make - it's just a stick with eyelets at the end. They are meant for use with bondage cuffs and quick-links, which is all really entry-level bondage stuff. Advanced practitioners can make almost anything out of rope.

Now if you talk to a woman who has seen the movie, you can talk about it without actually having to watch it.
 
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