"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dgwizdal

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Anyone else on the bb website too? I am constantly giving these guys advice on how to get over a girl, why she's not interested, what they did wrong, etc. and get endless reps.

However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill. And the chitty part is these guys will never learn without being proactive with women. I'm sick of these phaggots and probably on the verge of getting banned.

Just wanted to say I very much do appreciate this community and the brotherhood within. We are light years ahead of these inbred, insecure, idiots.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah. I'm a member there. I stopped posting in the relationship help ****. Whenever I gave guys good advice, they'd disagree with me. What's your username there? Will rep you.
 

Dgwizdal

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applegoo said:
Yeah. I'm a member there. I stopped posting in the relationship help ****. Whenever I gave guys good advice, they'd disagree with me. What's your username there? Will rep you.
Broner 5 - got a few threads active right now. Appreciate the love brah
 

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Im on there to. For years, sick of it to be honest. Gets annoying.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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u mirin'?
 

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You can't force these principles on anyone who doesn't wanna learn...you'll just be seen as a completely insane lunatic. This shıt's not for everyone.
 

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^For real. You'll never change their stance on this. They'll just be even more hardened if you try.
 

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Any guy who works out just to get girls is a faggot. Guys on BB are almost all faggots. So don't feel bad.

On top of that they are probably taking steroids so their mind is fvcked up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dgwizdal said:
Anyone else on the bb website too? I am constantly giving these guys advice on how to get over a girl, why she's not interested, what they did wrong, etc. and get endless reps.

However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill. And the chitty part is these guys will never learn without being proactive with women. I'm sick of these phaggots and probably on the verge of getting banned.

Just wanted to say I very much do appreciate this community and the brotherhood within. We are light years ahead of these inbred, insecure, idiots.
Most of those BB guys are roid monkeys who think that being ripped is the key to getting pvssy. What do you expect?
 

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Yep you're right. I'm well built so I go on there to mess around on the diet exercise talk and frequent the RH forum too. One would think they have their shot together. You should see how pathetic some of these guys who are jacked innergame is. Some of the stories and feelings these guys say makes me cringe with disgust. Makes me think working out is all they have to them.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Any guy who works out just to get girls is a faggot. Guys on BB are almost all faggots. So don't feel bad.

On top of that they are probably taking steroids so their mind is fvcked up.
And you base this on your extensive knowledge and experience right?

Fvckin kj.
 

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Purefilth said:
And you base this on your extensive knowledge and experience right?

Fvckin kj.
lol filth this guy doesnt know anything. dont judge someone on steroids, and dont turn this debate into one involving steroids. clearly you have no knowledge on the subject, so why piss bs out of your a$$. and i agree, doing ANYTHING just to get a womens attention is not what life is all about.

Also the psychological affects of steroids are user dependent and usually a placebo. ive ran cycles before, from experience i can tell you that the only psychological effect was the feeling of not giving a fvck. everything goes back to normal after pct anyway.

@bokanosky i agree they are fvcking idiots who only lift to get big -> get women -> repeat cycle and thats all. some of us like to rip our bodies apart for other reasons, stress, competition, for pure fun but these scumbag invade what real bodybuilding is all about. its fvcking dumb.

kkk end rant.
 

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If I worked my ass off and now have better aesthetics than 99% of men yet still cant get laid I'd have a sh!tty attitude too :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dgwizdal said:
However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill.
I got banned I think back in 04. I've come to realise that you can't just fire off red pills to a bunch of people who are still on "TV time" as I call it. One on one or a handful of men only no problem but other than that there will always be a swarm to chastise and angrily scold you for veering away from cathedral groupthink.

OP don't waste your time you'll just end up frustrated.

Great size btw. Looking thick, solid, tight.
 

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JohnChops said:
@bokanosky i agree they are fvcking idiots who only lift to get big -> get women -> repeat cycle and thats all. some of us like to rip our bodies apart for other reasons, stress, competition, for pure fun but these scumbag invade what real bodybuilding is all about. its fvcking dumb.
Not to mention that being ripped does not actually help you get chicks. Women like guys who are fit but not necessarily ripped. In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.
Good point.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
Not to mention that being ripped does not actually help you get chicks. Women like guys who are fit but not necessarily ripped. In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.

overly muscle like ronnie coleman, yeah....but these guys get puzzy thrown at them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbDmkauWgvE
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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