"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dgwizdal

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Anyone else on the bb website too? I am constantly giving these guys advice on how to get over a girl, why she's not interested, what they did wrong, etc. and get endless reps.

However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill. And the chitty part is these guys will never learn without being proactive with women. I'm sick of these phaggots and probably on the verge of getting banned.

Just wanted to say I very much do appreciate this community and the brotherhood within. We are light years ahead of these inbred, insecure, idiots.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah. I'm a member there. I stopped posting in the relationship help ****. Whenever I gave guys good advice, they'd disagree with me. What's your username there? Will rep you.
 

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applegoo said:
Yeah. I'm a member there. I stopped posting in the relationship help ****. Whenever I gave guys good advice, they'd disagree with me. What's your username there? Will rep you.
Broner 5 - got a few threads active right now. Appreciate the love brah
 

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Im on there to. For years, sick of it to be honest. Gets annoying.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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u mirin'?
 

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You can't force these principles on anyone who doesn't wanna learn...you'll just be seen as a completely insane lunatic. This shıt's not for everyone.
 

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^For real. You'll never change their stance on this. They'll just be even more hardened if you try.
 

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Any guy who works out just to get girls is a faggot. Guys on BB are almost all faggots. So don't feel bad.

On top of that they are probably taking steroids so their mind is fvcked up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dgwizdal said:
Anyone else on the bb website too? I am constantly giving these guys advice on how to get over a girl, why she's not interested, what they did wrong, etc. and get endless reps.

However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill. And the chitty part is these guys will never learn without being proactive with women. I'm sick of these phaggots and probably on the verge of getting banned.

Just wanted to say I very much do appreciate this community and the brotherhood within. We are light years ahead of these inbred, insecure, idiots.
Most of those BB guys are roid monkeys who think that being ripped is the key to getting pvssy. What do you expect?
 

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Yep you're right. I'm well built so I go on there to mess around on the diet exercise talk and frequent the RH forum too. One would think they have their shot together. You should see how pathetic some of these guys who are jacked innergame is. Some of the stories and feelings these guys say makes me cringe with disgust. Makes me think working out is all they have to them.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Any guy who works out just to get girls is a faggot. Guys on BB are almost all faggots. So don't feel bad.

On top of that they are probably taking steroids so their mind is fvcked up.
And you base this on your extensive knowledge and experience right?

Fvckin kj.
 

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And you base this on your extensive knowledge and experience right?

Fvckin kj.
lol filth this guy doesnt know anything. dont judge someone on steroids, and dont turn this debate into one involving steroids. clearly you have no knowledge on the subject, so why piss bs out of your a$$. and i agree, doing ANYTHING just to get a womens attention is not what life is all about.

Also the psychological affects of steroids are user dependent and usually a placebo. ive ran cycles before, from experience i can tell you that the only psychological effect was the feeling of not giving a fvck. everything goes back to normal after pct anyway.

@bokanosky i agree they are fvcking idiots who only lift to get big -> get women -> repeat cycle and thats all. some of us like to rip our bodies apart for other reasons, stress, competition, for pure fun but these scumbag invade what real bodybuilding is all about. its fvcking dumb.

kkk end rant.
 

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If I worked my ass off and now have better aesthetics than 99% of men yet still cant get laid I'd have a sh!tty attitude too :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dgwizdal said:
However, whenever I post a thread with proactive thoughts, revelations, tips, advice I get destroyed by trolls for being "PUA" and spitting truth about the redpill.
I got banned I think back in 04. I've come to realise that you can't just fire off red pills to a bunch of people who are still on "TV time" as I call it. One on one or a handful of men only no problem but other than that there will always be a swarm to chastise and angrily scold you for veering away from cathedral groupthink.

OP don't waste your time you'll just end up frustrated.

Great size btw. Looking thick, solid, tight.
 

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@bokanosky i agree they are fvcking idiots who only lift to get big -> get women -> repeat cycle and thats all. some of us like to rip our bodies apart for other reasons, stress, competition, for pure fun but these scumbag invade what real bodybuilding is all about. its fvcking dumb.
Not to mention that being ripped does not actually help you get chicks. Women like guys who are fit but not necessarily ripped. In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.
Good point.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
Not to mention that being ripped does not actually help you get chicks. Women like guys who are fit but not necessarily ripped. In fact, being overly muscular can be a turn-off. If asked to name the world's hottest man, not many women would pick a professional bodybuilder.

overly muscle like ronnie coleman, yeah....but these guys get puzzy thrown at them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbDmkauWgvE
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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