"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body Type, lets hear it!

Body type preferred

  • Really skinny- minimal hips/flat chest

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • Curvy- average hips and bust

    Votes: 13 65.0%
  • Real curvy- big butt and breasts

    Votes: 2 10.0%

  • Total voters
    20

Thatfeel21

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Wondering what the preferred body types of women are and why.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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CaliMan007

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I love girls with hips and curves and some meat on them. Skinny girls have never been my thing. Fat girls, well, enough said.

The main thing that does it for me is the hip to waist ratio, which I think is indicative of child bearing ability. The hour glass figure is what I need!
 

Colossus

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Yeah you need more categories. Might I suggest:

Super skinny. Think model skinny. Breastless, with long limbs and knobby joints.

Thin. In shape with minimal boobs, but not gross-skinny. Huggable.

Average. Some fluff around the waist and thighs, B-C cup boobs. Nice all-around female.

Fit. Athletic but not quite "competitor" fit, like Fugly's ladies ;)

Thick. Not "fat" per se, but thick waist and some thunder thighs. May have huge or medium boobs.

Voluptuous. Kinda fat but with such round hips and voluminous boobs it doesnt matter. Often black or Latina.

Chubby. 'Nuff said.

Walrus. AKA morbidly obese.



Personally I like thin or fit (not extreme fit). I dont really care about boobs, just a shapely ass and great legs. Between 110 and 125 lbs.
 

like2jam

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Between the first two, but you really need more categories imho.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WoodB

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I like them on the lean side. Then again, I will make exceptions unless she is fat.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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It's all about the boner factor.

Thick to voluptuous does it for me. As I've gotten older, I've really developed an appreciation for a woman with a big booty.

-Augustus-
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stagger Lee

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I like the classic playboy model, hourglass figure. About 5'5-5'8 36-22-36 115-120 lbs or so, under about 20% body fat. I like a flat tummy most of all, some feminine curves that are due to muscle and bone with just a little feminine body fat, but boobs aren't that important to me. An C or D cup would be a nice bonus. Good looking girls with that kind of figure are usually young, rare and on a pedestal though. Their looks alone make them nearly celebrities nowadays.
 

BMX

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All I've been attracting lately is the really short & skinny types. I'm a half inch short of 6' and heavy from all the lifting, wrestling, boxing I've done over the years.
 
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